Em_Butterfly
Silver Member
Hi guys,
Just wondering if I'm just unlucky or if this is the norm: I often go out with a good friend of mine, she is quite pretty but not amazing in my opinion (only being honest because you won't know who she is!) anyway, she always gets loads of attention when we go out. Good for her. But the thing is we were out the other night and met a really nice bloke who I was interested in, I told her this and instantly she was all over him (this is typical). I was pretty sure he liked her but we all swopped myspace addresses and he has emailed me a couple of time. He just sent me an email letting me know how 'gutted' he was when he found out my friend was single and I guess that means he wasn't thrilled that I was the single one out of us two.
What I want to know is, are all men this shallow? Is it really just because I'm a little overweight and she isn't? I'm a bit upset really, I feel like I'm constantly rejected...I know he doesn't know that he's done that (thank God) but it gets to me.
The only good thing is that I am now DETERMINED to lose weight and give her a run for her money. She does flirt with everyone I like (to the point of actually sitting on a guys lap and literally putting her boobs in his face when I was talking to him) which is a bit out of order, especially when she is already with someone and it hasn't been long so she should still only have eyes for him in my opinion.
Sorry to waffel. Fed up of being fat and single!! x
Just wondering if I'm just unlucky or if this is the norm: I often go out with a good friend of mine, she is quite pretty but not amazing in my opinion (only being honest because you won't know who she is!) anyway, she always gets loads of attention when we go out. Good for her. But the thing is we were out the other night and met a really nice bloke who I was interested in, I told her this and instantly she was all over him (this is typical). I was pretty sure he liked her but we all swopped myspace addresses and he has emailed me a couple of time. He just sent me an email letting me know how 'gutted' he was when he found out my friend was single and I guess that means he wasn't thrilled that I was the single one out of us two.
What I want to know is, are all men this shallow? Is it really just because I'm a little overweight and she isn't? I'm a bit upset really, I feel like I'm constantly rejected...I know he doesn't know that he's done that (thank God) but it gets to me.
The only good thing is that I am now DETERMINED to lose weight and give her a run for her money. She does flirt with everyone I like (to the point of actually sitting on a guys lap and literally putting her boobs in his face when I was talking to him) which is a bit out of order, especially when she is already with someone and it hasn't been long so she should still only have eyes for him in my opinion.
Sorry to waffel. Fed up of being fat and single!! x