Thanks everyone for your posts,well things are with hubby are starting to get back on track slowly,but i am really ashamed to say my weight has really suffered and i am nearly the same weight i was when i started cd last year i am really gutted about it,so last week i went to the docs and had my own type of vlcd approved which is 3 slimfast shakes made with skimmed milk and a low cal soup (all works out at about 850 cals)a multi vit and weekly checks with the nurse,my first is next monday not sure how i will go but i know i need to get myself sorted before things get really out of control.Lucyxx