Bit upset today!

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  1. ladylipo

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    Hey im gonna have a moan sorry in advance to anyone who reads this!!!

    Well last nite my best mate who i live with just came straight out and said she dosent want to be my friend anymore :(
    When her and her partner broke out i was there for her and helped her in any way i possibly could (even talking a few days off work)
    Now there back on again and she dosent want anything to do with me as she told me last nite, her partner dosent like me at all we've had massive blow outs in the past but i was willing to try get on with it for my friend!

    Im just so hurt really am i know its all gonna go belly up again (like it always does) and she'll come back crying and winging that i was right!

    This by no means means im coming off LT incase you think im gonna use an excuse to go on a binge, infact its done the complete opposite im feeling so much stronger and more determainted now!

    Sorry for the rant just wanted to get that off my chest :eek:
     
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  3. lillie

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    hun im sorry about that,im not going into details but i had a bestfriend who **** on me really bad so i know how you feel,you can do one of 2 things either just step back and wait for her relationship to crumble again and still be there for her or you can say enough is enough and move on ,i wish i could give you a hug you sound like you need on ,moan as much as you like thats what we are all here for xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
     
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    Awww honey thats awful..personally of Lils options i would move on! I would find it very offensive after you have been there for her so much! No man is worth losing friendship. But on the other hand maybe it is her BFs influence! Not nice though. Big hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
     
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    Ya see i know it isnt her saying it well it is but its her partner making her think if im not around everything will be peachy, shes completely turned against me!

    I just dont know what to do been honest, i want to be there for her really i do but this isnt the first time something like this has happened!
     
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    Its awful when somebodys partner has so much influence on somebody but at the end of the day she has to use her own mind hun. Just wait and see maybe..see what happens if she comes back to you xx
     
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    Ouch:( That must have hurt. Best thing you can do is step right out of it. I know it seems unfair cos you have been her shoulder to cry on. Smile and sincerely wish them the best of luck. And then make your own life busy and keep out of her way. Difficult if you live together I know.

    It sounds like their relationship is complicated, and you are better off out of it. Spend time with friends that appreciate you. :)
     
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    Is she moving out lady? x
     
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    Thanks for that honestly you guys are all great, i think ill be taking your advice and steping out of it but i wont be wishing them good luck im too stubborn lol!

    Ill be seeing a lot more of my REAL friends people who actually care about me, sod her now shes made her mind up well its being made up for her its a very controlling relationship! Being told what to do and so on, it'll never work anyway she'll learn that sooner or later
     
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    Now that was confidence hun xxx
     
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    I asked her too, but if she does i dunno how ill pay rent on my own :(
     
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    Plenty more flatmates in the sea ...
     
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    Lol cee-cee..true or a smaller, cheaper place? xx
     
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    Yeah i suppose your right but im not leaving my house iv pets and most places dont want animals in their properties cruel pigs lol
     
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    Where you from lady? xx
     
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    From little Ireland not far from dublin
     
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    Im possibly going to Irland next month..my auntie lives in Sligo..never been before xx
     
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    Oh really, awh you'll love it here everyone that comes to Ireland seems to love it! Iv never been to sligo myself
     
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    They say good friends are hard to come by , but in life you will notice people come and go , only the good ones stay around , i think if she comes back you will have to walk away as shes not a true friend . her boyfriend see's you as a threat , so he wants you out of the way , which he got his way . Well i can see her being lonely cos she does not have her own mind , i'm glad your feeling strong to carry on , you will always meet new people !
     
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    I know ive always wanted to go over! She said its quite quiet but it will be a nice change from Big old Manchester! My little girlwill love all the open space to run around! Love to go to Dublin though..without Millie! xxx
     
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    Me and the hubby went to Dublin just after Christmas for a break without the kids. It was great, but ffffreezing. We had to sit in pubs most of the time drinking Guinness! Happy days ..
     
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