fatgirltrim
Member
Ok the title makes me sound dramatic but I need to unburden and explain.
my parents retired to goa 7 years ago and during that time I have visited at least 5 times. I have to older siblings who claim they can't afford to visit but still manage holidays to the Dominican republic and Egypt respectively. I do not have a good relationship with my parents but wanted to know that should they shuffle off this earth my conscience is clear. So last year we had a significant extension built with an overspend of 40k taking cost to 115k so I told my parents there is no way we can visit for a few years till back on track.as usual they didn't listen, so now they have decided to visit the uk, not a real problem but .... In 4 weeks time,! They have said stay with us , so I thought ok few days me few days siblings ... Oh no only us and to take them to visit siblings.
This sounds so callous but my mum will take over, criticise tell me when to go to bed etc and on top of that I know I will have to knock the diet on the head during the visit
please any ideas how to tweak plan for the 2 weeks, I'm so stressed already just knowing about upcoming visit that I wanted to just crack and eat carbs rubbish alcohol
Cheers and sorry for rant
my parents retired to goa 7 years ago and during that time I have visited at least 5 times. I have to older siblings who claim they can't afford to visit but still manage holidays to the Dominican republic and Egypt respectively. I do not have a good relationship with my parents but wanted to know that should they shuffle off this earth my conscience is clear. So last year we had a significant extension built with an overspend of 40k taking cost to 115k so I told my parents there is no way we can visit for a few years till back on track.as usual they didn't listen, so now they have decided to visit the uk, not a real problem but .... In 4 weeks time,! They have said stay with us , so I thought ok few days me few days siblings ... Oh no only us and to take them to visit siblings.
This sounds so callous but my mum will take over, criticise tell me when to go to bed etc and on top of that I know I will have to knock the diet on the head during the visit
please any ideas how to tweak plan for the 2 weeks, I'm so stressed already just knowing about upcoming visit that I wanted to just crack and eat carbs rubbish alcohol
Cheers and sorry for rant