Hello All,
I know I have been a little MIA lately... primarily because I moved offices and internet connections.. so I have really be limiting my non work web activity
Here is what I have been upto:
After being in the UK for almost 4 months, I finally gave in last week and signed up for the online dating thing. I am 25 years old and I am having a real issue meeting people..
Anyways today was my first date... and it was ok. I don't think I am attracted to him. So that was a shame..
But this is what I realised.... It was a huge step for me to put myself out there like that and I should really be proud of myself for doing that. Usually, I would cling to any guy who displayed vague interest in my because I believed it was what I could get. but I am actually proud of myself for also being true to myself and realizing that I am probably not attracted to the guy I went out with and the search is still on...
BUT I also realized, I cannot do anything really with a date that has anything to do with food, except for a coffee date.. which is what this was..
I made up some elaborate story about not drinking for 100 days because it was a dare.. (seriously, Medically prescribed diet I am assuming would be a HUGE turn off). I also realized that if I did like someone, what would date number 2 be.. It couldn't be a meal..
Hmm, maybe I should wait on this whole dating thing... I am on week 10 now... I have atleast 2 more months after my 14 days are up... that is a LONG time to wait...
Oh Also, I met the most gorgeous man on the tube, and we started to talk for a few tube rides... I am sitting at home at 8pm kicking myself for not giving him my number.. but would that even be appropriate..
Comments, Suggestions. ANYone? Anyone?
P.s. How you all doin?
I know I have been a little MIA lately... primarily because I moved offices and internet connections.. so I have really be limiting my non work web activity
Here is what I have been upto:
After being in the UK for almost 4 months, I finally gave in last week and signed up for the online dating thing. I am 25 years old and I am having a real issue meeting people..
Anyways today was my first date... and it was ok. I don't think I am attracted to him. So that was a shame..
But this is what I realised.... It was a huge step for me to put myself out there like that and I should really be proud of myself for doing that. Usually, I would cling to any guy who displayed vague interest in my because I believed it was what I could get. but I am actually proud of myself for also being true to myself and realizing that I am probably not attracted to the guy I went out with and the search is still on...
BUT I also realized, I cannot do anything really with a date that has anything to do with food, except for a coffee date.. which is what this was..
I made up some elaborate story about not drinking for 100 days because it was a dare.. (seriously, Medically prescribed diet I am assuming would be a HUGE turn off). I also realized that if I did like someone, what would date number 2 be.. It couldn't be a meal..
Hmm, maybe I should wait on this whole dating thing... I am on week 10 now... I have atleast 2 more months after my 14 days are up... that is a LONG time to wait...
Oh Also, I met the most gorgeous man on the tube, and we started to talk for a few tube rides... I am sitting at home at 8pm kicking myself for not giving him my number.. but would that even be appropriate..
Comments, Suggestions. ANYone? Anyone?
P.s. How you all doin?