Do you dread the warm weather?

[hchappyh]

I don't mind my knees or my arms, it's the bit in the middle I hate with a passion! It's also the bit that takes the longest to go on me, typical!!!

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[sugar_fiend]

Argh - Double post! Ignore this one haha

 

[sugar_fiend]

The middle is the easiest bit to hide with strategically placed + styled clothes though! Your at an advantage there.

 

[hchappyh]

I may have a slight advantage but my tummy still looks soooo big in anything. Am smaller on top than my middle so everything just looks wrong....That spare tyre or 3 are still there and I hate them as much now as I did before loosing 3 stone with Go Lower. Can't wait for them to get flats..

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[nattyclare78]

Do you know I have just realised I dread going out full stop.....I have also realised I don't make an effort anymore because I don't think I am worth making an effort on if that makes sense!

So yes I do dread summer too lol

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[hchappyh]

Natalie, I hope you start going out again very soon and stop dreading it when you do go out, its no good for you. Start by making an effort - I know it's hard especially if you're not going anywhere and time wise etc, but once you begin to feel better about yourself, you'll want to go out more and socialise. I know the summer is hard, we all struggle, hate to say it though, we just gotta get on with it! Sorry if that's a bit blunt, but I hate the thought of you sat at home not wanting to go anywhere...Go out and make the effort - you'll be pleased once you've done it.

Good luck
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[nattyclare78]

thanks, not too blunt....thats probably what I need!

just got to focus on more positive things

:fear:


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[hchappyh]

Natalie, think of all the postive things in your life and everything will be ok. You are already under the 200lbs weight, so are well on your way. Good luck and you know where we all are if you need to 'chat' and vent or just whatever....

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