Hi Annie,
EEk, poor Dave!! He does luv ya tho'!!
Seriously, don't mess with your gallstones. My sister had to wait ages for her op and ended up with severe jaundice, a failing liver and compromised kidneys, due to a blocked bile duct. She was so ill, vomiting, itching, bad pain, generally feeling terrible, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. She is okay now, pleased to say. I, on the other hand had mine out very quickly after I first got problems (lucky enough to have private medical insurance). It was keyhole surgery, and was really no big deal. I recovered very quickly and like others have said am so pleased the dam* thing's out. Good luck and try to be gentle with Dave!
SM