Hi Kik
I suffered with hair loss quite badly too, it was noticable particularly on the top and I understand how worried you are about it. I found it quite distressing....many other LL'ers I know lost hair but not to the extent that I did so I think it varies with how much you lose or even if you lose any at all.
The great news is that my hair is looking fine now, I have loads of re-growth that although is quite short at present it fills in the thin looking patch I had on the top nicely.
It will come back Kik and the loss should start to slow down soon. I started to lose mine whilst on abstinence around week 14 and the high amount of shedding continued for around 10 weeks (i was then in RTM)but by then I was noticing the regrowth coming through. If I pull my hair into a ponytail I can feel that it is definitely thinner now but to look at it looks fine.
I did do a couple of things to help although I'll never know if they helped or not, and they included taking a hair supplement called Nourkrin which was very pricey (around £90 for a 3 month supply) although you can by much cheaper hair, skin & nail supplements from Boots and also Health food shops such as Holland & Barrett have supplements they recommend and I also used a Wella Salon shampoo (brought from my local hair salon) for hair loss which is just a gentle shampoo I think and Wella also do a Hair loss tonic that you can rub into your scalp after washing to encourage hair growth ... again not sure how much use these have really been but I was worried about it and felt I needed to be "doing" something.
My doctor explained that doing abstinence really does put stress on the body and this can be the consequence ... it happens to when people have emotional stress in their lives too.
Although it was worrying at the time I can honestly say now that it was worth going through to be slim!
Keep your chin up Kik ...it will improve!
Take care
x