charlies_mummy
all for my little man x
Sorry you're going through this, hun. It doesn't help that he's still there. You think maybe he's being such a d**k, cos he wants you to throw him out, so he can say he wasn't the bad guy?
Either way, he needs to be gone asap, especially if he's getting violent and upsetting the bubs. And um, if he's not buying food, he doesn't get to eat, okay?! That's YOUR food. YOU bought it for YOU and your SON. Would you invite any other ex over for dinner? lol Didn't think so!
No more free meals, literally.
I know you're trying hard to be civil, but in all fairness, he's not. And the buck has to stop somewhere. Draw a line under things, tell him he has to leave, by the weekend, and I guarantee things will get better. Even the air will taste sweeter.
He's sucking the life and the happiness right out of you. It's up to you to stop that.
xxx be strong xxx
He gets his keys on the 1st October, and as much as I want him gone right now I need him here to look after our boy whilst I work nights. As much as I would love to kick his sorry backside out I can't and he knows it!
I am refusing to cook for him anymore, have had enough. Though we are running the freezer down as I can't afford to run it anymore so may make him a lovely stew from all the rubbishy leftovers mmmm cod, sprouts, hashbrowns, broad beans and a scone
Have actually been squirreling pennies away so that when he goes I have a little bit of money for food etc as the way it's looking once bills are payed I have very very little. Have actually applied to a charity for help with the car situation, they help nurses in financial trouble due to illness or family breakdowns, so fingers crossed they will be able to help a little with money towards a used car!
Thanks everyone for your kind words xx
8 more sleeps to go, and 4 of them I am not at home!!! xx