soopermummy
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I have been doing sw for about 16 weeks and since christmas started weighing in at a new class as the timing is better however like most of us with busy lives alot of time I weigh and go (leader I dont find inspiring anyway)
Tonight I wanted to be back early to put kids to bed so got to class early and there is a few people waiting 10 mins before class starts - fine I get in the queue
Woman at desk when 7pm comes round doesnt say anything or give us the nod to start but 2 women walk through the door and go immediately to the weigh in desk.
I think oh maybe they dont know there is a queue....They pay their money (lady on desk doesnt say anything) and I had to say something to them that we were all waiting in case they hadnt realised to which one of them snaps at me and says "well actually we stay to class and we are in a rush" so shocked me says "oh does that make a difference?" "to which she says "Yes actually it does"
So I called leader over and she brushed it off and I dont want to make a big song and dance but would have liked a little support leader hasnt a clue whats going on. Other ladies see it and support me a little as it made me really stressed being treated like some second class citizen that I dont usually stay to class so I am not entitled to take my place in teh queue.
I finally go to weigh in (actually forgotten what I am there for by this point as fuming) and I said to the lady who had just been weighed at this point "well thanks now I am really inspired to come and sit in class with your group, I feel really welcome" and her friend just shrugged it off saying she didnt mean it nastily
I turned to the woman behind sho said that the girl was a total b***h
How horrid I honestly felt like crying and although I spoke to the leader I didnt get any support from her at all
Surely I pay the same amount I and queue I must be entitled to same "rights" if you can call it that
Needless to say I will be finding another better organised group and more inspiring and supportive leader but I feel totally let down
By the way I lost a pound but it was totally lost on me because of the nasty treatment and I was prepared to stand up and say something
Can anyone give me any words of wisdom hubby is telling me not to bother going back at all full stop
I have been doing sw for about 16 weeks and since christmas started weighing in at a new class as the timing is better however like most of us with busy lives alot of time I weigh and go (leader I dont find inspiring anyway)
Tonight I wanted to be back early to put kids to bed so got to class early and there is a few people waiting 10 mins before class starts - fine I get in the queue
Woman at desk when 7pm comes round doesnt say anything or give us the nod to start but 2 women walk through the door and go immediately to the weigh in desk.
I think oh maybe they dont know there is a queue....They pay their money (lady on desk doesnt say anything) and I had to say something to them that we were all waiting in case they hadnt realised to which one of them snaps at me and says "well actually we stay to class and we are in a rush" so shocked me says "oh does that make a difference?" "to which she says "Yes actually it does"
So I called leader over and she brushed it off and I dont want to make a big song and dance but would have liked a little support leader hasnt a clue whats going on. Other ladies see it and support me a little as it made me really stressed being treated like some second class citizen that I dont usually stay to class so I am not entitled to take my place in teh queue.
I finally go to weigh in (actually forgotten what I am there for by this point as fuming) and I said to the lady who had just been weighed at this point "well thanks now I am really inspired to come and sit in class with your group, I feel really welcome" and her friend just shrugged it off saying she didnt mean it nastily
I turned to the woman behind sho said that the girl was a total b***h
How horrid I honestly felt like crying and although I spoke to the leader I didnt get any support from her at all
Surely I pay the same amount I and queue I must be entitled to same "rights" if you can call it that
Needless to say I will be finding another better organised group and more inspiring and supportive leader but I feel totally let down
By the way I lost a pound but it was totally lost on me because of the nasty treatment and I was prepared to stand up and say something
Can anyone give me any words of wisdom hubby is telling me not to bother going back at all full stop