Hi, sorry to drag up an old thread but I came across this on a google search.
I joined a local group a few weeks ago.
Week 1 = big loss.
Week 2 = quite big loss and Slimmer of the week and month award
Week 3 = big loss and Slimmer of the week award.
I felt very awkward picking up the 3 of those awards and in week 3 when it was announced there was quite an obvious silence when it was announced.
Has anyone else found themselves in this situation and said anything to their consultant? I want to message mine asking to not include me in this if it puts me in a bad position with the group. I don't care for the food basket, it's nice and I appreciate it but I just want to lose weight and feel part of the group. On the other hand, I feel if I message asking this am I going to look a fool if someone rocks up and loses more than me this week and look a bit big headed assuming I will win (which I don't, I just would rather not be highlighted if I do!). I obviously have a lot more weight to lose than most of the group too.
A few google search results show a real resent to men who join the group and drop weight quite fast winning these awards every week. I don't want to be that man but I want to continue losing!
Thanks in advance.