Scarlet Daisy
Hungry For Life
We have had our cat Stouffer since I found him (as a tiny kitten) a year ago. He is very gentle, neutered and often plays with other cats in the garden. A couple of times, when the weather was nice, he would bring other cats into our house to play, because the door was open!
Last night I collected a 12 week old kitten, from someone who was finding it too much to cope with. We've named him Zool. Heh. Zool was living with a huge vicious dog, three squabbling kids and hamsters and birds that he wasn't allowed near. As a result he is very feisty and growls and hisses a lot. He likes cuddles though and has the makings of a sweet cat.
Despite my romantic notions of the two cats getting along instantly... They haven't hit it off yet. Zool spits and growls at Stouffer, Stouffer flies at Zool and starts fights. *sigh* Of course, it is very early days (hours).
My b/f is of the old school opinion that they should "sort it out between themselves". The internet tells us, however, that we should introduce them at a very slow pace, which will possibly take more than a month (!), and that they should never be allowed to sort out who is boss by "fighting" (so far they haven't harmed each other, it had been more posturing and the odd wrestle, broken up by me).
Can anyone here offer us advice? Have you had any experience of doing this?
Last night I collected a 12 week old kitten, from someone who was finding it too much to cope with. We've named him Zool. Heh. Zool was living with a huge vicious dog, three squabbling kids and hamsters and birds that he wasn't allowed near. As a result he is very feisty and growls and hisses a lot. He likes cuddles though and has the makings of a sweet cat.
Despite my romantic notions of the two cats getting along instantly... They haven't hit it off yet. Zool spits and growls at Stouffer, Stouffer flies at Zool and starts fights. *sigh* Of course, it is very early days (hours).
My b/f is of the old school opinion that they should "sort it out between themselves". The internet tells us, however, that we should introduce them at a very slow pace, which will possibly take more than a month (!), and that they should never be allowed to sort out who is boss by "fighting" (so far they haven't harmed each other, it had been more posturing and the odd wrestle, broken up by me).
Can anyone here offer us advice? Have you had any experience of doing this?