Tinytootz
Mini crazy cat lady
I got engaged on Christmas day this year, and my mum is worrying. She says it is way too soon, and doesn't seem to take on board anything I am saying regarding it. I met OH in Nov 2010, he moved in Feb/March 2011, and we got engaged Christmas 2011. I'm 27 if that has any bearing.
Personally, I don't see that as too quick, but maybe it is? Or is it natural maternal worries? I don't like to think of her losing sleep over this (which she has been doing), but there's only so many times you can say "I'm happy", "you don't need to know his entire life history" and "it isn't too fast" without going a bit cuckoo! Today is the 3rd or 4th 'meeting' we've had regarding the impending wedding (I say impending, we're looking at 2014!), and each time it's been the exact same. I even dragged my brother in today in an attempt to help out, but he was no use. Friday OH is going round with me too, but my mother is quite terrifying to some!
Dads views? "Just go to Vegas, it's cheaper than £30-£40 per head"
Personally, I don't see that as too quick, but maybe it is? Or is it natural maternal worries? I don't like to think of her losing sleep over this (which she has been doing), but there's only so many times you can say "I'm happy", "you don't need to know his entire life history" and "it isn't too fast" without going a bit cuckoo! Today is the 3rd or 4th 'meeting' we've had regarding the impending wedding (I say impending, we're looking at 2014!), and each time it's been the exact same. I even dragged my brother in today in an attempt to help out, but he was no use. Friday OH is going round with me too, but my mother is quite terrifying to some!
Dads views? "Just go to Vegas, it's cheaper than £30-£40 per head"