***its Friday***lets Do It Hour By Hour***

[Porgeous]

Yes and standing next to me my mother is not going to notice my 30lbs!

But she's your Mum and your 30lbs will mean more to her than any weight that I've lost - that's what Mums are for!! xxxx

Thanks Clare but you are hot on my heels - you'll be there in no time!

Gxx

 

[Mary Poppins]

Dont believe that for 1 minute - I saw my SIL last night first time in over 3 weeks and she couldnt believe how different I looked & I've lost no where near 30lbs! I wish I had...... x

Yes,but as you have already said my sister in law looks fabulous

 

[Mary Poppins]

But she's your Mum and your 30lbs will mean more to her than any weight that I've lost - that's what Mums are for!! xxxx

Thanks Clare but you are hot on my heels - you'll be there in no time!

Gxx

Yes Clare you'll be there in no time!
Georgie-Yes,but shes very proud of you too,even though she's not the type to go all gushy

 

[Time4ME]

Yes,but as you have already said my sister in law looks fabulous

I've not got alot on tomorrow - how about I drive past - shove her in the back of my boot and tell your Mum she's busy ... That will also stop her posting and me having to look at how gr8 she looks !!!!

 

[Porgeous]

Yes Clare you'll be there in no time!
Georgie-Yes,but shes very proud of you too,even though she's not the type to go all gushy

Bless her, don't you just love mums - they have the ability to make you feel good even if you've only lost 1lb! Think on young lady as I am planning a major shopping trip in London with you when you get to goal and we will look gorgeous!!!

Gxx

 

[Mary Poppins]

I've not got alot on tomorrow - how about I drive past - shove her in the back of my boot and tell your Mum she's busy ... That will also stop her posting and me having to look at how gr8 she looks !!!!

Ok,but she needs to tell me how great I look first and she needs to have her mobile cause I have to talk to her when I'm having a bad day!!

 

[Porgeous]

If I'm in the boot an oxygen tube would be nice??? please???

Now let's change the subject as you are making me blush!

Gx

 

[AG1981]

Couldn't go on a proper night out and not drink, i'd be too self concious and nervous. I always worry everyone is looking at me and judging me and that people will be rude and aggressive towards me because i'm not important in their eyes.

You must have got rid of the boys now Clare, just the girls talk to listen to now..

Claire that sounds horrible, I hope you're going to complain to the hospital, fancy it being their fault in the first place then trying to blame you. I reitterate though, food will not make you feel any better in fact will probably make you feel even worse. Get yourself a few pints...... of water of course.

 

[Time4ME]

Ok - subject change.... Ummmmmm I've been invited to a 30th early March and my initial response to the invite about a month ago was NO WAY, tooooooooo fat, nothing to wear etc etc etc. Now I'm thinking I might venture out, drive of course so I dont get tempted by the cursed vino & let my guard down. I dont want to feel like a prisoner but up til now I could nt face going out sober and grossly over weight - does that sound sad??????

 

[Mary Poppins]

Good night everyone.Got to be up to get coach to the homeland.
Catch up with everyone tomorrow night

 

[Porgeous]

Night night Sue, see you tomorrow xx

Clare - no it doesn't sound sad I think we have all felt that way at some point. Give it a whirl, you don't know until you try. I too avoided social gatherings but actually found it wasn't as bad as I thought and I really got quite a buzz out of going, sticking to my guns and being in control as well and feeling better about myself because although I still had a way to go I was doing something about my weight.

Gxx

 

[Time4ME]

Yes - I'm off now - the girls wanna cum in here and watch Titanic - so I've got front room to myself.
Hope you all have good nights sleep - I know I will when I finally get up there xxx

 

[AG1981]

Night Susan.

Clare I know exactly how you feel. I've been invited to a housewarming and Ann Summers at the end of the month, both are only with friends so normally wouldn't be bothered at all, but I know if I go and have been SS'ing for a month some people might say, "Oh have you lost a bit of weight?" - I don't want that reaction, I'm gonna go into hybernation until i've lost loads and can see them and hear them cry with disbelief. lol!
-That's why I spend all my time on here because there are only about 5 people in the world who know i'm no longer a food eater and they include the doc, my CDC and my housemate. I am so glad of this forum for an outlet to talk and discuss my diet as much as I want/need to.

 

[AG1981]

Night Clare

 

[Time4ME]

Night night Sue, see you tomorrow xx

Clare - no it doesn't sound sad I think we have all felt that way at some point. Give it a whirl, you don't know until you try. I too avoided social gatherings but actually found it wasn't as bad as I thought and I really got quite a buzz out of going, sticking to my guns and being in control as well and feeling better about myself because although I still had a way to go I was doing something about my weight.

Gxx

Thats wat I thought Georgie
I's sorting getting to the point where I feel able to face the world again - still got plenty to lose but the path and journey seem short and I know where I'm going to this time...
Thanks hun - always feel a bit daft waffling - with no adults in the house except me all week I often get all deep and meaningful!
Have a lovely day tomorrow xxxx

 

[Time4ME]

Night Susan.

Clare I know exactly how you feel. I've been invited to a housewarming and Ann Summers at the end of the month, both are only with friends so normally wouldn't be bothered at all, but I know if I go and have been SS'ing for a month some people might say, "Oh have you lost a bit of weight?" - I don't want that reaction, I'm gonna go into hybernation until i've lost loads and can see them and hear them cry with disbelief. lol!
-That's why I spend all my time on here because there are only about 5 people in the world who know i'm no longer a food eater and they include the doc, my CDC and my housemate. I am so glad of this forum for an outlet to talk and discuss my diet as much as I want/need to.

Oi you lot - stop keeping me chatting - BUT thats exactly how I've felt, up until now like this evening really. I've still got loads to lose, but I am really happy on my chosen route, what I am doin, the packs I am eating and how I am conducting my life - being single really really suits me!

the 30th's not for a month and the 40th is 6 weeks and I keep thinking I could be at least a stone lighter then and feeling even better than I do now - x

 

[Mary Poppins]

Ag-I used to feel like that when I went out,but I have found that going out sober I don't notice it as much.I'm not convinced that some of it wasn't the little drink devil making me feel like that.I do understand though.Perhaps you should try and persuade friends to do something you might enjoy cause never going out isn't fun.Or give yourself a target when you would feel able to go out.Maybe when your BMI reaches 38 or whenever you think you'll feel proud of yourself

Clare you should definatley go to the party and if you drive and you don't feel comfortable you can always get someone to call and say you have to leave

 

[AG1981]

My housemate and I have bought cinema passes so have been 4 times in the last week and a half, that's my new thing to do on a Saturday night, so will entertain myself for a few hours tomorrow night. So am still socialising so will survive without a big night out on the town for a while. I think...

 

[Time4ME]

Well - its a bit sad but I'm really into this whole planning and routine thing - and planning ahead along with SS is my new thing ! Right ladies - we must get our beauty sleep and kids are now hanging round waiting for the TV.
Big hugs xxx

 

[Mary Poppins]

Weren't we all going to bed and how do you all type so quick