I feel really really pee'd off...
Mt ex has just come round - he's been drinking with one of his 'mates' and told me, his words.... ''oooh I've got some gosspi for u????'' he arrives and takes me into the kitchen where he tells me that his 'mate' and his wife have just parted as he belted her in temper (only his version was we were scuffling and my hand slipped and I cought her accross the face which split her lip)... The police were called, he has been charged but she has contacted him to say, give me full custody of the kids (they have two both still at school but under 16) and the house and I'll drop the charges.
Now this is the classic..... He tells my husband - oh I heard about you and your wife splitting up, sorry and all that... My husband promptly tells him that
'it was just one of those things' and that we still talk etc.....
I AM SO ANGRY....
I left my husband on 28th May 2007 because he battered the living sh1t out of me, fractured my nose & cheekbone, blacked my eyes both, split my eye open, bruised me head where he repeatedly punched me when I was curled up in a ball, blood dripping from my eye on to the floor.... And his final words to me at that point were.... Have you had enough yet????
He and his 'mate' have now come to the foregone conclusion that she MUST BE HAVING AN AFFAIR because he still loves her to death and cant believe she called the police.
I took a sharp intake of breath and responded as follow...
YOU only know right now exactly what he has chosen to tell you.
His response back to me was - oh thats right, you would take her side!
I AM SO SO SO SO SO ANGRY that I have had this conversation and that I feel so angry - what a complete and utter
pr@t, him and his mate!
AND NOW GUESS WHAT I WANT TO DO..........................................
EAT & DRINK WINE
I dont normally come on here and moan - I try to be as upbeat as possible, for myself and others and now I feel really really peed off and miserable :cry::cry::cry::cry:....
What I need to know is - am I being silly????????????????????
I can also tell you that I WANT to eat but I PROMISE that I wont!