Thanks BC. IT is indeed. I love old people, and it must be such an odd place to know that your days are numbered. In a way, this is sort of why the family is hoping she drifts off peacefully, as her quality of life has her spending most days depressed. SHe has lost her about 80% bot vision and hearing,m so she can no longer do anything she loved to do - read, knit or watch Coronation street - those were her 3 joys left in life, and since shes been unable to do them, she just sits in her home, albeit with other residents, but she just sits. Its quite sad. SO in a way, maybe this is the best thing to come, if she just slips off quietly rather then suffer repeat incidents.
But its very hard and sad wishing that for someone. Thats my father in laws hopes. Maybe mums too. Its kidn of a hard pill to swallow because I am selfish, and I do no like losing anyone, ever. But it is tru, her quality of life is not verynice.
WHatever is meant to happen will.
Thanks for your wishes.
xx