FionaMcd
Gold Member
lardylady said:I'm not being funny, but it sounds like you are talking about a child, not an adult- eg his tantrums, and having to 'hide' veg by chopping it up! A man at the group I attend has no idea how the plan works, because his wife plans and cooks every meal, and when asked by the C about healthy extras, syns etc doesn't even know what they are. She prepares his packed lunches for work, and chooses his meals at restaurants etc It's embarrassing!
I'm glad your OH is agreeing to follow the plan, but maybe you should step back and take on the supportive role of wife, and not the nurturing role of mother. I don't mean to sound negative and critical, but I think for him to be successful in the long term, he needs to take control and not have to rely on you to work the plan out for him.
Wow harsh or what? X