We are all very different in the support we need and if someone 'kicked' me, they'd kick me straight into a large bar of chocolate. when we come on here and give support, either tough love or sympathetic hugs, we actually don't usually know the person we are giving it to, to know if it is the right way, we generally just give out what we'd like to receive if it were us in that situation.
I wish you every success Mof2G and hats off to you for being a full time mum. The days I'm in work are easy to diet, the days I'm at home (I work part time) are hard going when it comes to food. You are doing the best job in the world, plus dieting at the same time :wow:
At the end of the day though, those 2 little girls (sorry I'm presuming they're little) will benefit as much as you from a slimmer, healthier mum