blue_grapefruit
Gold Member
My relationship with CD has come to an end. Last night, after watching a repeat of a Jamie Oliver programme my OH turned around and said that he'd like a chat and that i wasnt to get upset.
His words were "I love you more than i ever imagined possible, but i can't stand by you and watch you do this to yourself. I know the benefits of CD - you've put plenty of effort into proving to me this is healthy, but i can't watch you do this. It breaks my heart to see you so cold and tired, and i feel guilty eating in front of you. Your mother and I have been talking a lot and neither of us agree with what you are doing"
My jaw hit the floor - Oli is not the type of person to just come out with something like this. He always supports me whatever i do, and so this all got me very upset.
After popping home to speak to my mother, I decided to stop SSing for the time being because i KNEW deep down that something wasnt right between Oli and I (and i had stressed to some of you that things werent going right motivational wise).
Anyway, he's asked me to do WW so that we can both learn to eat sensibly and cook together like we used to. I'll still do CD diet principles like follow a low GI plan and drink LOADS of water and GT
I can't thank you miniminers enough for the invaluable support and love you've shown me over the last few months, but Oli is my life and it's his support i need more than any. I can't do this and knowingly upset him.
I'll still be around, bugging you all - especially those i've become close to - and this message is for you (you know damn well who you are) I WILL FIT INTO THAT DRESS!
Thank you again,
Love Leah xxx
His words were "I love you more than i ever imagined possible, but i can't stand by you and watch you do this to yourself. I know the benefits of CD - you've put plenty of effort into proving to me this is healthy, but i can't watch you do this. It breaks my heart to see you so cold and tired, and i feel guilty eating in front of you. Your mother and I have been talking a lot and neither of us agree with what you are doing"
My jaw hit the floor - Oli is not the type of person to just come out with something like this. He always supports me whatever i do, and so this all got me very upset.
After popping home to speak to my mother, I decided to stop SSing for the time being because i KNEW deep down that something wasnt right between Oli and I (and i had stressed to some of you that things werent going right motivational wise).
Anyway, he's asked me to do WW so that we can both learn to eat sensibly and cook together like we used to. I'll still do CD diet principles like follow a low GI plan and drink LOADS of water and GT
I can't thank you miniminers enough for the invaluable support and love you've shown me over the last few months, but Oli is my life and it's his support i need more than any. I can't do this and knowingly upset him.
I'll still be around, bugging you all - especially those i've become close to - and this message is for you (you know damn well who you are) I WILL FIT INTO THAT DRESS!
Thank you again,
Love Leah xxx