talking of positive strokes (thats compliments isnt it?!) i dont really pay attention! anyway - was in tesco the other day with vince and say a colleague of my dads, and he was walking towards us and i said hi, and he looked straight at me, then looked away and said hello to vince, he then looked back at me and said 'oh my god, i didnt recognise you, you've wasted away' (not quite lol, but nice to hear) he went on to say that all that was going through his head was who on earth was vince in tesco with?! lol xxx made me feel great i tell thee xxx