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  1. sophia-jo

    sophia-jo Silver Member

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    omg Levi, do you have councilling for your cutting? It sounds like you have been through some tough times. How are you feeling right now? Have you put down your tools????
     
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    Glad you felt you could come on here. Have you hurt yourself badly?

    Stay logged on if you need to talk theres always someone here

    *HUGS*
     
  4. sophia-jo

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    are you there levi????
     
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    Oh Levi, please don't cut yourself again hun. Come back in here if you're able to or is there a family member or friend who you can talk to?
     
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    You can't keep bottling your feelings up; it'll only end up with you feeling so pent up you'll feel compelled to cut again.

    Have you spoken to a doctor? Is there any chance of counselling via your GP? You sounds as if you have a lot of hurt that needs to be expressed.

    Even if you aren't getting professional help at the moment, you can always vent on here ... we might not be able to 'counsel' you but we can listen and offer shoulders to cry on.

    Sending hugs your way
     
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    Levi ofcourse you should come here with it. If you really feel you have noone you can call or anything youre much better being on here and talking about it.
     
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    whatever you are thinking you can say it on here
    we wont judge you, we will listen and support WHATEVER it is
    dont hurt yourself anymore tonight, you are to precious OK
    let it out , we are listening
    nat xx
     
  9. sophia-jo

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    yes, deffo come on here hun, we will do all we can to help you.

    No one would have to know about the councilling...If I were you I would go to your GP and talk with them about it...or even call Samaratins...they may have a direct line to councillers who are trained in dealing with your cutting. If you have issues with your child hood darlin then you should address them with a professional councilor....You poor thing, I just want to give you a big hug.

    Please thing bout seeing someone Levi....you never know...you may find it actually helps you and you wont know unless you give it a try. you owe it to yourself to get some help, you deserve the help sweetie.

    how are you feeling now Levi???
     
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    its ok
    you are not alone in having awful thigs in your past
    just try to remember that its the future that matters
    dont let those b*stards ruin your life!!!
    sweetheart your are worth more than that
     
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    oh, I see....well hun, I know first hand that there are crap councillors out there but wouldnt mind betting that there are some fantastic ones too. Would you try again??
     
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    GOOD!! :) Are there any friends or anyone you could call and talk to tonight?
     
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    Hi Levi

    I hope you are feeling a little less stressed.

    Counselling does help- but you need the right counsellor bit like Cambridge diet really.......

    Theres someting called Dialectical behavioral therapy which has been found helpful in treating cutters.

    Here's a really useful self help website :


    Self-Help

    How are your cuts ?

    Luke
     
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    Where is your husband Levi??

    Don't you feel like you could talk to him about this?? We are all here for you but I'm concerned that you don't have anyone physically with you .
     
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    That's understandable darlin....but how often do you get like this??
     
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    You really need to talk to someone about this, whether its a friend, a councellor or someone more anon like the Samaratains. Id hate to think one of my friends was going through something like this on their own *HUGS*
     
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    Any decent counsellor wouldn't swamp you by expecting you to deal with every problem you've ever had on one big rush. The process takes as long as it needs.

    The thing with bottling it all up is that it's like putting a sticking plaster over a bad wound ... on the surface it may look OK but underneath it's festering and becoming worse.

    Please consider talking to a doctor - they can't force you to do anything but may suggest something that would help you to overcome this situation.

    As for your abuser ... the best form of revenge is to survive. Don't let the past ruin your future xx
     
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    aaaw sweet heart..... can't you go in to him and tell him how you are feeling....surely if he knew he would help you and forget your argument...

    About your Mum and Dad, maybe the hint wasnt strong enough, and as much as you don't want to hurt their feelings what would hurt them more.???? knowing that you have kept this to yourself for all these years?? That would surely hurt them more. maybe you could try again...maybe be a little more direct about it, when you are feeling stronger you may be able to broach the subject easier.

    I'm not a councillor and am not trying to be but I think that you need all the support and help from your family that you can get, and I imagine if they knew what you have been through and what you are currently going through then they will be there for you 100%
     
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    Im sure any arguments will be forgotten if he sees how upset you are and what youve been doing.

    Does he know you cut yourself?
     
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    My brother used to cut himself and in the end I made him go to the doctors..
     
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