incognito
Full Member
Like I said before we have all done something like that at one point.. be strong your better than this.. u deserve to be treated with respect.
If you continue down this road you will drive yourself insane.
Take Care xx
Men eh!!! and why are we such idiots?
- Thread starter cicerone
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Like I said before we have all done something like that at one point.. be strong your better than this.. u deserve to be treated with respect.
If you continue down this road you will drive yourself insane.
Take Care xx
airgirl
Gold Member
I really feel for you...it's never nice learning these kind of things about people we care about.
In my experience we only look/dig/spy when we know deep down something is not as it seems! You had reasons for searching and obviously valid ones, as this has proved.
Why you would want to stay with him now is beyond me, sorry for being blunt but you know he's lied to you and you feel insecure enough in the relationship to not trust him....by staying with him you'd be doing so out of your own low selfesteem/insecurity issues because NOBODY should put up with feeling that way, no matter how new a relationship it will not survive without honesty and this has fallen at the first hurdle.
Seriously feel for you, i have been there myself many many times over, and screwed over in the worst possible ways so please understand i know it may be hard to break away but if you don't now things will just get worse.
As for genuine ones on the internet, they are few and far betwwen but use your own instinct to weed out the losers as there are some good guys around hun.xx
In my experience we only look/dig/spy when we know deep down something is not as it seems! You had reasons for searching and obviously valid ones, as this has proved.
Why you would want to stay with him now is beyond me, sorry for being blunt but you know he's lied to you and you feel insecure enough in the relationship to not trust him....by staying with him you'd be doing so out of your own low selfesteem/insecurity issues because NOBODY should put up with feeling that way, no matter how new a relationship it will not survive without honesty and this has fallen at the first hurdle.
Seriously feel for you, i have been there myself many many times over, and screwed over in the worst possible ways so please understand i know it may be hard to break away but if you don't now things will just get worse.
As for genuine ones on the internet, they are few and far betwwen but use your own instinct to weed out the losers as there are some good guys around hun.xx
Starlight
Gold Member
With you on that one Minnie, my user name comes up with too many hits but I googled my pals nickname, the one he uses on other sites (NON dating ones lol) and forums. Got numerous matches on dating sites and other sites which most definitely ARENT him.
Googling a name and using it as 'evidence' could be a bad idea...
