Eeeek , im always struggling seems like a constant battle(sorry bit demotivating) Ugly fat clothes, terrible pictureshaving them about so i can mentally revisit the 'bad' place and know i never want to go there for real again.
seeing cute undies that i can seduce the bf in and either fitting them or knowing i will soon fit into them often works too.
i had a few anne summers outfits i bought when i was a size 24( i bought them in a size 18) and they fit now
perfectly :-D