Hi Lorna - I love reading your diary, you write really well.
Firstly, well done on the size 10 dress!! I love wrap dresses - did you get yours in a high street shop? If so, would you mind telling me where you got it as I'd like another one!
I can so understand your argument with your DH. I have had the same "discussion" with mine many times. He was brought up very differently from me and seem to think that it's all about quantity and doesn't seem to have the first idea about the nutritional qualities of food (his parents are the same). My children get praised at their grandparents house for eating 3 sausages, when quite frankly at their age 1 sausage would be sufficient (and would leave room for potatoes and veg!).
Having said that, your DH has a point in that if she is not well any food would do her well as she needs her strength. It's one of those times where you are both right (although Mums are always a bit
more right) depending on how you look at it. I've had to learn to let go of a few my principles since becoming co-parents (oh what a modern word LOL) with DH as we have different views on a lot of things. I decide most things but have realised that not doing it my way sometimes won't ruin the children

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As for your post-row binge - it was pathetic. 8 yoghurt coated raisins!!! Honestly I could teach you a thing or two


Oh and as far as the cleaning thing is concerned - Bess' hoover idea is brilliant and I've used it many times! Also, your DD is 3 years old - If she can walk she can hoover!! My children are regularly running around the house with wipes (they clean with baby wipes) and feather dusters and my son probably does more hoovering than I do

. I'm not sure whether I should say that with pride or with shame...
My children earn points that they can trade for money or Playstation time - they have been doing this since they were about 2 years old (although when they were really little they worked for a box of raisins

). They dust, hooever, empty the dishwasher, put the washing on (I do the detergent bit), lay the table, make beds, clean the bathroom (except the toilet) and scrub the floor. There's no way my DS is going to grow up to become one of those young men who has never used a washing machine.
Anyway - sorry for writing an essay! I've been off line for a few days and I've had Mini withdrawals
