Hello!
How you all doing? Just wondering if anyone else gets given unwanted advice from friends? I finally had to tell one of my friends last night, that i was on a diet and not drinking any alcohol ( she was wondering why i didn't want to go the pub this weekend) - I knew she would rabbit on about diets being 'bad' for you, so i didin't even bother saying I was on the CD. I just kept with healthy eating!
But even so, she still decided that she had become a nutitionist overnight, and therefore she knew what was best for me. And also came out with, 'but i don't think you need to loose weight' after I said, its just something I want to do before the summer. I just want to do it for myself.
So yep, our disagreements went on for a while on the phone!! It was awful, i felt like i was pleeding with her to let me feel better about myself.
I just find it annoying, how people seem to think that they can tell me how to eat, live my life and view myself.
They don't seem to understand that I want to get healthier, happier, more confident for myself?
Its funny, I never tell them what they should or shouldn't be eating, I dont pretent to be a doctor or a Fitness instructor - telling them they are exercising too much or too little. I let them get on with their lives and am happy for them when they achieve what they want - whether it be personal issues or career. So why if I just want to concentrate on myself they get all bossy?!?
Hummm very odd, has anyone else had anything similar??
Got to go and get weighed tonight, so hopefully - fingers crossed - I will be alot more chilled about the matter!! lol
Hope your all good! and all keeping up the good work!
