Now I am really really cross

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  1. Yorkiegirl

    Yorkiegirl is happy being Yorkiegirl

    I have just been told about what has been said about my weight loss by someone who has been very spiteful to me over recent months.
    She went on and on about how unhealthy LL was, and that someone had died doing it, that I had lost too much weight, didn't look good etc etc.
    In the bigger picture I don't give a monkeys about what she says or thinks. I am just annoyed right now because she said it behind my back grr....

    Methinks she is suffering from the green eyed monster too.....
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  3. fitz

    fitz Lovin it !!! :)

    how catty - sound like you are definitely right - jealous or what. So if someone has died then why is the company still thriving and the plan being enforced in a lot of medical professions to combat obesity.
    Take no notice - some people just cannot bear to see others successful.
  4. crystaltips

    crystaltips Member


    Should'nt worry about it. She probably hasn't seen much bedroom action recently so is taking it out on you;)

    I'm sure you look gr8

  5. sonkie

    sonkie Gold Member

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    Certainly sounds like jealousy to me.
  6. Tiger Girl

    Tiger Girl Full Member

    Hey Yorkie
    There was a thread earlier in the week quite similar to this, and it's really interesting how bitchy some people can get with you about the loss.
    i personally have one 'friend' who I've not seen since the day before I started LL, and I just know that when I do see her it will be full of backhanded compliments like you wouldn't believe. There is no way that I'm telling her what I've been doing in any detail. She will be the absolute queen of the 'you'll put it all back on really quickly' comment!
    I wouldn't give any of these comments from this person a second thought. Some people will want you to stay heavy - it makes them feel better about themselves.

  7. Sez

    Sez has started again!!

    Yup!! Sounds like jealousy to me. My sister is the only one who so far has not "noticed" my 5 stone loss, and myLLC says that this says more about her than it ever does of me!! Maybe your"friend" has the same issues???

    Just ignore it, you are a superstar and you know it!!
  8. SoonBeSlim... It'sTrue!

    SoonBeSlim... It'sTrue! Full Member

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    How mean,

    you are right to ignore such unfounded and just plain rude bits of gossip.

    However worried by one of your replies to this post about lack of bedroom action! Is everybody getting more than me? LOL

    Sam xx
  9. scareypeanuts

    scareypeanuts Just one day at a time

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    How rude is she and it just proves that she doesn't know anything.

    LL is given to patients at Hope Hospital in Manchester. Why would they do that if it was bad for you?

    You are right, she is definitely jealous and it just proves how well you have done.

    Ignore her and concentrate on the most important person in the world.......YOU.

    What a fab weight loss and WELL DONE.

  10. Cherry Plum

    Cherry Plum One day at a time

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    Ahh Yorkie girl, she sounds like a right b*tch, she is jealous that you've lost all the weight, does she have a weight problem herself? She doesn't want you to look better than her!
    She's just trying to find fault with the diet because she's jealous. If anyone had died through this diet I think we'd probably all know about it.

    Just ignore the negative comments from people like her.
    Remember you have achieved a lot, well done.
  11. Yorkiegirl

    Yorkiegirl is happy being Yorkiegirl

    SoonBeSlimItsTrue I can guarantee I win the prize for lack of bedroom action... absolutely none and boy could I do with some!!!!
  12. SuzyA

    SuzyA Full Member

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    Don't blame you being mad at all. It is so much more a reflection on them that you. We discussed this in my development group today and all agreed this.

    These people are just taking out their own insecurities on you. I met someone this week who after an hour of meeting me (having not seen me for 6 months) didn't mention my weight loss at all except to say what are you going to do when you regain all the weight!!!

    Some people are so sad AND really need to see some action!!
  13. cheerydino

    cheerydino Full Member

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    I agree with the ladies here. Pure Jealousy!

    I can understand how you feel! Someone at work was complimentary about my weight loss at first. She has been trying to lose a bit of weight. Suddenly, she got quite cyncial, saying I was losing so much weight that I will disappear! She behaved as if I would succumb to anorexia! :mad: Since then, I just ignored her. She does not know me at all.
  14. 10stonesize10

    10stonesize10 Member

    Just forget about her , shes not worth it
    you are...............
    she is the green eyed monster.
    you and I know this diet better than anyone I would think, we know how we feel ect ,and that is great.....
  15. stacey

    stacey i love minimins me :)

    i agree with everyone, definatley jealousy

    i bet u look amazing!!! and well done

  16. Fuzzys Angel

    Fuzzys Angel The Lovely James Hetfield

    I agree with all of the above, jealousy without a
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