Blue Butterfly
Gold Member
Ok my Exante journey is on hold until 1st Jan (I will get there eventually!)
BUT.....I have something that is bugging me and I know I should post it in the relationship/dating part on here but this section feels like my 'home' if that makes any sense so I hope you all don't mind me posting this here.
I will try and keep it short.
Ok, 2 weeks ago today I went out on a date with a lovely guy. We 'met' online and had been talking for months, finally managed to find a day when we were both free and went and had a drink in a cafe.
He made it clear that he liked me alot and gave me tons of compliments. Oh he likes bigger women, I met him on a site for plus sized women and the guys that love them!!
We talked non-stop and before we knew it 3 hours had passed.
My brother was supposed to pick me up from town but the guy offered to drive me home instead.
As we were getting on so well I asked if he wanted to come back to mine so we could talk some more, he knew there would be no sex coz I dont on the first date. Plus my brother was at home!
Anyway, we went back to mine and kissed and cuddled for another 2 hours and we talked some more too.
He left (after nearly 6 hours together) text me when he got home and.......
I haven't heard from him since :cry:
Does anyone know why he would have just stopped talking to me all of a sudden?
I guess I feel a little hurt right now, things seemed to have gone so well and now he's ignoring me.
I haven't dated alot as I was hurt VERY badly (physically and emotionally by someone I was with a few years ago) so don't know what's 'right' and 'wrong' after you've been on a date with someone!
Is it normal to not hear from them for 2 weeks??
I have no clue!
Any replies would be greatly appreciated.
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BUT.....I have something that is bugging me and I know I should post it in the relationship/dating part on here but this section feels like my 'home' if that makes any sense so I hope you all don't mind me posting this here.
I will try and keep it short.
Ok, 2 weeks ago today I went out on a date with a lovely guy. We 'met' online and had been talking for months, finally managed to find a day when we were both free and went and had a drink in a cafe.
He made it clear that he liked me alot and gave me tons of compliments. Oh he likes bigger women, I met him on a site for plus sized women and the guys that love them!!
We talked non-stop and before we knew it 3 hours had passed.
My brother was supposed to pick me up from town but the guy offered to drive me home instead.
As we were getting on so well I asked if he wanted to come back to mine so we could talk some more, he knew there would be no sex coz I dont on the first date. Plus my brother was at home!
Anyway, we went back to mine and kissed and cuddled for another 2 hours and we talked some more too.
He left (after nearly 6 hours together) text me when he got home and.......
I haven't heard from him since :cry:
Does anyone know why he would have just stopped talking to me all of a sudden?
I guess I feel a little hurt right now, things seemed to have gone so well and now he's ignoring me.
I haven't dated alot as I was hurt VERY badly (physically and emotionally by someone I was with a few years ago) so don't know what's 'right' and 'wrong' after you've been on a date with someone!
Is it normal to not hear from them for 2 weeks??
I have no clue!
Any replies would be greatly appreciated.
x