Ok here goes, my journey
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charly1979
Silver Member
jojo, just got in from work to read this ... hope u r ok and P is right with her onwards n upwards comments! however i do have to say the pros with online friends like me is you can be as open and honest as you like because thats what i expect from my online friends so you too can expect it in return! i am here if you wanna vent! xxx big love xxx
Joodle
Silver Member
Ah, Jo, definitely a tough patch you've been through, let's hope this somehow marks the end of it.
Never easy with a break up but sounds like you've thought it through and it's a decision you want. That's probably the best you can hope for.
And if you are back in Singlesville, well, what can I say? When you're ready for dating again, let's share horror/ success stories!
Big, big hug.
Jx
Never easy with a break up but sounds like you've thought it through and it's a decision you want. That's probably the best you can hope for.
And if you are back in Singlesville, well, what can I say? When you're ready for dating again, let's share horror/ success stories!
Big, big hug.
Jx
charly1979
Silver Member
yeah me too waiting with anticipation!!! xxx
Oh blimey !!!!!! Weighed in this morning, first time in i'd say a month could be more & it wasn't pretty !!!!!! I've gained a whopping 15.5lbs :sign0007::booboo:Reset all my stats & targets to reflect all this & I even went on the Dukan site & redid my TW. It now says my TW is 7lbs lighter than originally & I'm going to go with that as I think I would have liked to get down to around that anyway.
So 5 days of attack
180 days of cruise - TW now 23rd March not the end of this month as orginally forecast - what a spanner !
258 days of conso - 6th Jan 14
I'm glad I caught it now rather than pile the whole lot on & more, I have to admit I was being seduced by the up/down day but after readung a post by Laura & a convo with TDM I've decided to stay with what I know & what i know works.
So the holiday, a week of sunshine, all inclusive & spanish !!!! The hotel could have been so much better, only one bar open out of 3 hotels ! serve yoursef alcohol which wasn't too bad but got a bit boring. NOT enough sunbeds, if you weren't down by 7.30 you never got one, yet there was plenty of space for extra beds & if you went & got lunch the lifeguard moved your towels for the spanish so you were kinda stuck. Rooms were ok although the air con was pants. We only ate main meals twice there & ate out every day, we only ended up having brekkie there which was toast ! The resort was nice though & I would go back, just not to that hotel, it's bad when even the taxi drivers say "no good 'otel"
So as you know there was a bit of drama on holiday - what a 24hrs ! It was just horrendous. I don't think I've ever felt so bad. After I drumped him, I got hammered. Went back to the hotel & we had the biggest argument we have ever ever had. Lots of home truths on both sides were said, probably for the best but not when you are both drunk as skunks. The following day all I did was cry & he just ignored me. Eventually we talked & I mean really talked, again like we have never done before. Anyway the jist of it is we are staying together to give it one last go, i have said that this is it now I've had enough of the toing & froing & the not knowing where I am so if it doesn't work this time we need to walk away otherwise we will end up hating each other. So I am going to move back in, to give it a proper go as the putting distance between us didn't help only made things worse.
So got back yesterday to a welcome home present from the cats, a bloody blackbird !!!! feathers absolutley everywhere !!!!! First job was to get the vacuum out, the cats then proceeded to ignore me for several hours.
Right I need to get a move on, new hair extentions today
I'll be back with more later & thanks girls for being there x
So 5 days of attack
180 days of cruise - TW now 23rd March not the end of this month as orginally forecast - what a spanner !
258 days of conso - 6th Jan 14
I'm glad I caught it now rather than pile the whole lot on & more, I have to admit I was being seduced by the up/down day but after readung a post by Laura & a convo with TDM I've decided to stay with what I know & what i know works.
So the holiday, a week of sunshine, all inclusive & spanish !!!! The hotel could have been so much better, only one bar open out of 3 hotels ! serve yoursef alcohol which wasn't too bad but got a bit boring. NOT enough sunbeds, if you weren't down by 7.30 you never got one, yet there was plenty of space for extra beds & if you went & got lunch the lifeguard moved your towels for the spanish so you were kinda stuck. Rooms were ok although the air con was pants. We only ate main meals twice there & ate out every day, we only ended up having brekkie there which was toast ! The resort was nice though & I would go back, just not to that hotel, it's bad when even the taxi drivers say "no good 'otel"
So as you know there was a bit of drama on holiday - what a 24hrs ! It was just horrendous. I don't think I've ever felt so bad. After I drumped him, I got hammered. Went back to the hotel & we had the biggest argument we have ever ever had. Lots of home truths on both sides were said, probably for the best but not when you are both drunk as skunks. The following day all I did was cry & he just ignored me. Eventually we talked & I mean really talked, again like we have never done before. Anyway the jist of it is we are staying together to give it one last go, i have said that this is it now I've had enough of the toing & froing & the not knowing where I am so if it doesn't work this time we need to walk away otherwise we will end up hating each other. So I am going to move back in, to give it a proper go as the putting distance between us didn't help only made things worse.
So got back yesterday to a welcome home present from the cats, a bloody blackbird !!!! feathers absolutley everywhere !!!!! First job was to get the vacuum out, the cats then proceeded to ignore me for several hours.
Right I need to get a move on, new hair extentions today
I'll be back with more later & thanks girls for being there x
charly1979
Silver Member
wow!! sounds like you have been busy! i am happy that you have sorted out what you needed to! and why is it there is always a holiday involved when theres a rocky patch in your relationship ... so it always becomes a make or break? anyway sounds like you have done some soul searching and found a suitable solution! xxx dont worry about the gain either you have made up your mind with what to do about it, and seen as other things in your life are restarting it seems only fitting that your diet should follow suit! jojo things can only get better from here on in!! (listen to me with the essay style answer) xxxx big love xxxx
(listen to me with the essay style answer) xxxx big love xxxx
Paulinegin
Gold Member
Welcome back JoJo
P x
P x
CheeseGirl
Gold Member
Jo hope things work out for you, I'd give you a good earful about bad relationships but as I'm in one myself I'm not in a position And good on you for containing the gain to 15lbs, that's nothing in the whole scheme of things and it should be gone within the month. Just know you're beautiful no matter what, and be yourself. We're all here for you!
And good on you for containing the gain to 15lbs, that's nothing in the whole scheme of things and it should be gone within the month. Just know you're beautiful no matter what, and be yourself. We're all here for you! So new hair yesterday & I felt so much better for it
Managed to stay on track all day for day number 1 back on D
B Muffins
L Roast Chicken
D Fillet Steak, yogurt & sf jelly
Plenty of water
Back in work today & only 338 emails ! Sneaked off onto here for a break from it all. Work is still awful, the powers that be are still planning on disbanding the team. Will know on Monday & I may have to find myself another job - BUT this time i'm not going to let the stress sabotage my weightloss I am determined !
Day 2 going ok food wise
B Muffins
L Chicken & roast Beef
D Spicy mince
S Tofu creme
Managed to stay on track all day for day number 1 back on D
B Muffins
L Roast Chicken
D Fillet Steak, yogurt & sf jelly
Plenty of water
Back in work today & only 338 emails ! Sneaked off onto here for a break from it all. Work is still awful, the powers that be are still planning on disbanding the team. Will know on Monday & I may have to find myself another job - BUT this time i'm not going to let the stress sabotage my weightloss I am determined !
Day 2 going ok food wise
B Muffins
L Chicken & roast Beef
D Spicy mince
S Tofu creme
charly1979
Silver Member
back on the D train! choo choo!!! lol x
dont worry about the D flu, you have gotten ova worse in the few weeks so a little of the flu will be a walk in the park! (stock up on paracetamol) x
dont worry about the D flu, you have gotten ova worse in the few weeks so a little of the flu will be a walk in the park! (stock up on paracetamol) x
