Just saw this thread and had to reply. I too am in need of loosing quite a large amount. I was 21st 7lb but am currently down to 19st 4lb. I've found that having little targets really helps.
My first was to get under 21st. Then to loose my first stone and get to 20st 7lb, then to get under 20st, then get to the point where I'd lost 2st. So each 'landmark' so to speak, has been half a stone, which has seemed much more achievable to me. Of course there have been off days, and times when I've been gutted that I've gone back up by a few lbs, but on the whole it seems to be working. My next goal is to get under 19st, so I have 4lb to loose. I have no set time, I don't force myself to be rid of it by any certain date, as I feel that if I did, then I'd feel that I was failing, so I just keep going until I do loose it, then rejoice at having done so. I'm still undecided about what my goal weight should be. 'Experts' say I should weigh 10st 7lb for my 5ft 7in height, but I can't ever see me reaching that. If I can get down to 14st I'd be happy, and then if I can keep going, I'd obviously be happier still. What has made me particularly happy, is being able to wear a bra again. I simply couldn't find anything in a 50B. Oh a few 'over the shoulder boulder holders', but nothing like I wanted, which was just a simple t-shirt bra. Now I have managed to buy one in Asda for £4 and can give up looking at all the overpriced and still unattractive ones from specialist manufacturers.
Hoping to be able to give and receive some encouragement here in the future
