I have been there on one of my many weightloss times.......and I had to remind myself that i once was one of those people, i ordered extra onion rings etc and thoroughly enjoyed them at the time, so you can't really blame them for doing what they want, after all you are doing what you want now, which is losing weight and you are doing a great job of it........as someone else said you can take your own food, that way you can stick to the way you want to live now and they can stick to theirs........as for their being no support, i don't think its as easy as them being jealous, they probably are but don't realise thats how they are acting.......as we all know, most of us when we are big and unhappy with our weight, we are the biggest actors around in front of other people and will often have a jibe at others before they can say something about us, i think more than likely they feel threatened by you, change is scary, whether it happens to yourself or happens to those around you, you moving on with your life is probably making them uncomfortable and when we're scared we say and do things that can be hurtful but again, we are not always aware that we are doing it, or even WHY we are doing it........
if they are really good friends and important to you you will get through this......taking your own food is a good start and soon they will realise that you're doing this whether they want/agree or not.......and they will not need you to join their bad eating habits to validate them doing it, just as you will not need their compliments to validate what a great job you are doing, you are only losiing weight for yourself right??? so why should it matter whether they think its good or not........i don't want to come across as harsh, becasue i'm really not trying to be, just concerned that you may well be on one of those distraction paths i often find myself on......the one where i don't get enough compliments/praise from other people and then slide into the why bother, who cares whether i lose weight or not distraction.......we can only ever do this for ourselves and being happy for ourselves with how we're doing is the only reward we should be concerned with.....yes it is nice if others notice and support us but if they don't we shouldn't let it get us down, becasue what they think doesn't matter, how we think and feel does........hope i've made some sense, its always harder trying to type things out than say them in a conversation
Really hope you find a way to resolve this that is right for YOU........as long as you are happy with your decision that is all that matters, and i'm sure your determinatiion to do this will help you get to where you want to be.......lots of luck