Some people!!

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  1. Camille

    Camille Silver Member

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    Went into town this morning wearing my size 18 jeans & 18 blouse feeling fantastic (I used to wear 24/26). Met my mum who was talking to a friend of hers, mum introduced me to her friend who looked at me then turned to mum & said 'she's a big girl isn't she'!!!!!!!
    What the ****!!
    Do people not think before they speak??!!!!
     
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  3. misscheeky

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    aww (((hugs)))) sod her camille some people are so stupid they dont think before they open there mouths. I bet you looked fab hun :) :) xx wait until you get to goal then what will she have to say!
     
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    Thanks Becky.
    The funny thing is after the shock wore off I felt quite sorry for her. Mum said not many people speak to her, I wonder why!!!
     
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    Honestly, some people are just born stupid - sadly thre isnt a diet out there to help people lose lbs of stupidity! You keep that head held high and next time you see her just remember 'she has lbs of stupidity weighing her down'... :)
     
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    "what odds about her" think how positive you felt slipping into your 18's and you ewill soon be slipping into your 16's forget about her (hugs) :D:D
     
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    some people just don't have the off switch between mind and mouth. ignore her. it is irrelevent in your fantastic achievements so far and the ones you will have in the future :)

    abz xx
     
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    Arghh people like that annoy me, it's easy to see why she has no friends and i highly doubt she has a daughter of her own or she would know about tact! Try not to let it bother you too much and concentrate on how good YOU feel.
    A few months ago i was in town and my ex's mum (who has a very loud voice), came up behind me and shouted 'oh i'd recognise that fat arse anywhere, how are you?' I was like oh i'm great now after that lovely complement.....i mean really, what goes through some people's minds, and to add insult to injury she is about 6 dress sizes bigger than me so is in no position to insult on weight.
    Well done so far chick and keep up the good work.xx
     
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    Aww hun glad you have dealt with this so well. My gran made a comment like that about me in January (after I had been tryin really hard to diet and ad lost a stone as well) which was so hurtful. As we arent close and I know she is very judgemental of everyone I tried not to let it get to me, but she said, in front of my whole family (cousins, aunties, uncles, mum, dad....) "Well you lost a bit but you still have a long way to go. Don't stop yet." It was the way she said it- everyone was saying how much healthier I looked (Bearing in mind I had gone frm 14.10 to 13.10) and then she just turned around in a rly hurtful tone and made me feel a bit 1cm tall! :( damn people like that who don't realise what its like to struggle with your weight!
     
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    The cheek off her!!!!!!!!! U should have told her 'well at least I have manners, whats ur excuise????????'. I have got so many insults over the years and they do break your heart the last one was' God look at the size of your T**s they are getting bigger' so maybe that will make you feel better!! Anyway just think you ill have the last laugh when all the weight is gone, XXXXXXX
     
  11. sumayyah

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    ignore her hun, not worth the head space, you know how well your doing so sod the small minded people.
    few months back some girls started in about my weight, just laughed at em and said if you think im big now ( sz 24 ) you should have seen me before! ( sz 32 )

    was in free spirit last week (buying sz 12 clothes for inspiration ) when a bloke looked at me sneered and said to his mates " omg look at the size of that ) pointed out his beer belly and told him he was no brad pitt himself

    im not normally a cow but comments like that would have left me crying for days before and i refuse to let em get to me now
     
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    Not that long ago I got into a little confrontation with a group of teenagers (my cat was missing and they thought it would be funny to phone me up and tell me they found her when they hadn't just to get me running around frantic looking for her). When I said going by one of the lads faces I knew they were lying he started having a go at me trying to intimidate me ending it with..."you fat sl*g". He was a bit taken aback when I said to him it was funny that he chose to call me that because it was his mothers nickname at school!:p Funny thing is I didn't move here until 18 months ago so I wouldn't know his mother if I walked past her in the street, but it had the desired affect and shut him up good and proper!
    Don't worry about it hun one day soon you will be skinny and beautiful (not that you're not beautiful now) but she will always be rude and ugly on the inside!
     
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    Ha ha Kelly, that was great...well done you.xx
     
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    Ignore her hun some people are just bloody stupid. My grandad said he didn't recognise me recently at a family wedding because I'd put more on........I hadn't I was infact a stone lighter than the last time he had seen me.

    Also I was telling my mum how some guy had tried to chat me up and she said maybe he mistook me for someone else. No he didn't, he was definitely trying to chat me up. Is it so hard to believe that people find me attractive then?

    I think some people can't bare to see you do well as it high lights their insecurites about themselves.

    Roz x
     
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    I had something similar in a club many years ago.

    Two guys said to me "what a huge pair of tits". I was 18 and mortified. If I'd have been quicker (and not so embarrassed) I would have replied not as big a pair of tits as you two!!!!
     
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    dont let her get 2 u! some people are just plain rude and ignorant! u keep up the fab weight loss and next time u see her she'll be the one eating her words! silly moo! xx
     
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    I posted twice!!!:eek:
     
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    Your weight loss is an inspiration to all on this board, your weigh in results have been fantastic! Some people just don't have the manners they were born with!!! Hold your head high, very high! XX
     
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    shes the one who has to wake EVERY morning being a rude, thoughtless whatever whatever!!!
    poor her, you've come along way and should be proud of yourself - you go girl!! xx
     
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    wow, how incredibly rude. I have never been able to get my head around people who act like that. Never in a million years would I go up to someone and say something like 'man look at the size of your nose' or whatever 'flaw' I noticed. I have had strangers (funny how its nearly always men...) comment on my size and it's so humiliating so I can imagine how you must have felt, especially as you're a size 18 which is soooooo not big!! Like the others have said, just hold on to that feeling you had going out today and feeling great cos I bet you looked it hun :)
     
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    Oh what a *****! sorry that slipped out.
    The thing is, you find that nasty people like that are usually very insecure themselves, and most likely lead very unhappy, unsatisfying lives. So you should feel nothing but pity for her.
    You keep up the good work, your doing fab xx
     
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