All the family I have is in NZ - in the same town, my brother, two nephews, aunt, cousin, plus other rellies in other parts of NZ.
Really understand about that girl's situation, I up and shot home when Mum was diagnosed so I could spend the last two months of her life with her - but it was hard to just act so quickly and go. My aunt (who I love very much) is getting on, and her mum's 85. After last year, I still jump every time the phone rings, thinking "Who will it be this time?".
Sorry for all this confessional stuff, but i really appreciate your thoughts - although it's hard to answer this for another person, I know
Off to do an Aldi and Tesco shop before class, speak later - and think light at 6pm!