Vic Vodkas dieting rollercoaster - back to it!!!!

I think sometimes our bodies do need shaking up a bit.. especially when you get close to goal, its like they rebel quite quickly with the same old same old!! At least you could plan in ice creams & nights out with WW. xx
 
I know thats what I was thinking. But if i get to goal with Dukan I can have 2 meals out a week/treats anyway. Im going to get my head round this diet the next couple of days. It is a hard diet but had proved good last couple of weeks with weight loss.
I cannot give up now.
 
Oh babes... first of all BIG ((( hugs ))).

I know where yr coming from, I have been struggling recently to stay on track & am bored of dieting. We both started together & its been a long time to be concentrating on what we are putting in our mouths!!

Definately yours isn't helped with the bloomin' PMT!! Just be gentle on yrself... this isn't just about dieting its about changing the way we think about foods & the fact that you have had times off the wagon but immediately got back on track is something you should feel VERY proud of! If you hadn't been this disciplined then you'd be a lot further off fitting in those clothes..........

Keep on keeping on babes... you will get there & you will look even more amazing for yr birthday. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

wot a brilliant post ,its hard when we r struggling ,but thats why we are all here to help and support each other and im glad that i found this site and my new onlines bud's xxxxxxx
 
thanks hon x god i hate work today :(
 
with me not being at work ,is a bonus really to try and get my head in the right place !!
 
glad babes. how is your son this week as you had your row last???
 
How did the interview go Vicky?

I hear you loud and clear re dieting too long etc etc (but I've been dieting since I was 12 so that one won't work for me!!!)...

Can I try something different? No offence intended...

I've said this before on other threads or perhaps on FB, not specifically to you but to others - and each and every "deviation" (let's say) from the diet makes it harder and harder to return...

To date, you've deviated somewhat at the weekend without consequences on the scales the next week - perhaps you'd have lost more had you not had extras, perhaps not... no way of knowing...

BUT, in having extras regularly, albeit in a controlled fashion, not only are you replicating past behaviour which creates yoyoing... (yes I know my subject here!!!) but also you're reminding yourself regularly of what you're missing, what you could be eating, and you're inevitably feeling more and more deprived.

Just a different take on the same circumstances.


Personally, in your place, I'd go for a "clean month of July" and get this diet FINISHED once and for all, move onto phase 3, and then have your (alcohol and other) treats again...

WW and calorie counting are all very well but they rely on willpower a heck of a lot which I always prove sadly lacking in at just the wrong moment!!

And the yoyoing caused by "abusing" Dukan and Atkins just isn't going to help us long term (yes I say "US" cos I've done it too!! not this time perhaps, but I'm speaking as someone who's not had a SINGLE intentional lapse since May 17... and boy it's soooo much easier this way!!!)

Don't hate me... and I won't hate you either if you ignore me!! That's fine and we all have to find our own way out of this labyrinth...

Off to read Dizzy... this might apply to you too... or perhaps not!!
 
oh yeh vicky the interveiw ,jordan's still not impressed with his punishment and has for my late son dan he now has a award in his memory called THE DANIEL BENTLEY OUTSTANDING STUDENT AWARD !! at the college he used to attend !
 
Thanks Jo. (not being sarcastic!)
I think you are right. Im contemplating all sorts at the minute at the moment. Its just hard having a social life and dieting. For example Im going to friends on sat with my bloke and we having BBq and there will be drink...now i know you dont drink Jo..BUT thats the way my life is with my friends, couple of glasses of wine too many fags!

I have been having a terrible time at work at the moment,and certain other personal situations are really getting me down. And yes i do turn to drink and food to help me...which is obviously not what I need to do.
When I lost all my weight last time on WW it was cos my partner was away in Iraq and I had nothing better to do than hardly eat anything and exercise like mad. Now its harder, I have 3 dogs to look after (am at work all day and dont want to bugger off to gym on a night for 2 hours - its not fair to have dogs if you are going to do that) and I have OH who keeps telling me I look fab. I know that sounds ridiculous but it really does make a difference.

I hate having to have a lodger so my house in not my own I cant bounce around the lounge doing my keep fit dvds. She has been away for 2 weeks so ive managed to get my wii fit in and stepper. TBH im still going carry on with them though. she will have to sit upstairs in her room.

Im having a right whinge arent I?

Ive got my menus sorted for this week so gonna stick to it ..get through the week and the crappy feelings im having at the moment.
 
Interview was hard work :(
jet thats lovely to have an award in remembrance of your son x
 
oh my poor love i know we r only people on boards writing to each other but whinge away u deserve to ,and its a shame we are not around the corner to give u a hug are 2 has i think we all need them !!

yeh it is !!
 
Absolutely Jet... lovely to have an award...

Vicky - I do understand truly... (and I did used to drink when I lived in England - what is it about ENGLAND AND DRINK????!!!!!!!). Now, I do go to BBQs but I take diet coke with me always and because I've been doing it for so many years, it's not a problem (for me - others seem to find it far more of an issue, and constantly try to ply me with booze... I've given up on pretending to be on antibiotics(!), and now simply respond that I'm "interesting enough without drink"!!! haaaa!).

There is one other thing Vicky... and I'm more or less coming round to the same realisation... you are not overweight any longer... our BMIs hover around "normal"... we're not fat, although we'd like to be slimmer and so, if we're not able to make the necessary sacrifices to get down to our respective target weights, how can we hope to stabilise them later?

And if that realisation is true (I'm still working on it, but getting there), then coming out of ketosis ought to be permanent and we should stop messing around with our metabolisms and our psyche with these diets!

(Talking to myself too!!)
 
Lol Jo.
I totally understand the we are normal weight now but I cant fit in my clothes (stamping feet on ground having a hissy fit).
I will post some piccies of me at weekend (excuse the idiot bloke with me) and I dont think i look too bad but then again im sitting down...
 
Is it just me? I can't see them!

I'm not saying stop dieting... I'm saying stop following ketogenic diets Mon to Fri... it's bad for our health, both physical and mental to keep going in and out...

I for one have learned how PP days can WELL help after a "silly weekend"... but help how? to empty your cells of water, which we then PANIC about filling up again with salad? How wrong is that?
 
Lol Jo.
I totally understand the we are normal weight now but I cant fit in my clothes (stamping feet on ground having a hissy fit).
I will post some piccies of me at weekend (excuse the idiot bloke with me) and I dont think i look too bad but then again im sitting down...

hey vicks ive got some pic's when i lost all my weight before and i had long hair to will post em and c wot u think ,im well ashamed that ive let myself get back to this but well thats my prb !!
 
Cant you get on flickr to see them? boo.
What to do then Jo monday to friday?
jet get your piccies on.
 
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