Hi Blondie,
many congrats to you, you did very well. Forget about the BBQ, go for a walk when people are eating if you must. Just don't fall into the trap of "look how well I have done... I deserve a treat". You do deserve a treat..a treat of another great weight loss next week.
But then again all I have to do is look at your journey to see you are committed.
Best of luck.
Doirin