Hiya, just read this whole thread. What an arse!!!! Just want to echo what everyone else has said. You are worth far more than him. I was in a similar situation, long time ago. He was a proper pig, abusive kind. Then I found out he was doing the dirty on me. Was in england at the time, so I got myself up to Scotland for a holiday, found a job and a place to stay, went back down and did a moonlight flit on the git. Best thing I ever did. Anyway, before I left I buried his car keys in the back garden. Really childish but I got soooooooooo much pleasure out of it.
You go live your life without him and be happy, they say thats the best form of revenge. Good luck with things and I truely wish you all the best.
Janey xx