scottishlass
Full Member
Just back from meeting up with 3 of my friends for a wine and a catch up (me with my soda water of course)
Two of these have been with me right through every step of my LL journey so far and both have been fantastically supportive. The 3rd I havent seen for about 6 months but I have always considered us to be close.
Anyway, given the fact that I am coming upon having lost nearly 3 stones my weight loss is very apparent to all. Now I wasnt expecting my friend to go into raptures but she didnt even comment on the fact that I had lost weight, it was one of my other friends who said to her "isnt SL looking great?" To which the friend asked me what I was doing, gave a very opinionated rant on what she thought of lighter life and more or less summarised with the fact that I will simply put all the weight back on plus more!
This friend has always been very slim, however I am now hovering on being the same size as her, when I have hit target I reckon I will be a size 10 on the top and and a 12 on the bottom as the 12's & 14's are starting to be on the big side. 10/12 is what she is. I got the distinct impression that she really was uncomfortable with the fact that I am no longer her 'fat friend'.
I have had a good think about it since coming home and have written a thought record on it. My reaction to this could easily have been, hurt at the fact that she hasnt acknowledged my loss, and also a bit of crooked thinking 'what's the point I may as well have something to eat" However - I have realised that I really am learning, it's her issue not mine, I feel fantastic and cannot wait until I reach my goal. Size 10's here I come.
Sorry for the ramble - just wanted to share before heading to bed. Night night.
SL
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Two of these have been with me right through every step of my LL journey so far and both have been fantastically supportive. The 3rd I havent seen for about 6 months but I have always considered us to be close.
Anyway, given the fact that I am coming upon having lost nearly 3 stones my weight loss is very apparent to all. Now I wasnt expecting my friend to go into raptures but she didnt even comment on the fact that I had lost weight, it was one of my other friends who said to her "isnt SL looking great?" To which the friend asked me what I was doing, gave a very opinionated rant on what she thought of lighter life and more or less summarised with the fact that I will simply put all the weight back on plus more!
This friend has always been very slim, however I am now hovering on being the same size as her, when I have hit target I reckon I will be a size 10 on the top and and a 12 on the bottom as the 12's & 14's are starting to be on the big side. 10/12 is what she is. I got the distinct impression that she really was uncomfortable with the fact that I am no longer her 'fat friend'.
I have had a good think about it since coming home and have written a thought record on it. My reaction to this could easily have been, hurt at the fact that she hasnt acknowledged my loss, and also a bit of crooked thinking 'what's the point I may as well have something to eat" However - I have realised that I really am learning, it's her issue not mine, I feel fantastic and cannot wait until I reach my goal. Size 10's here I come.
Sorry for the ramble - just wanted to share before heading to bed. Night night.
SL
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