Luckily I'm not a World Of Warcrack widow, I'd seriously kill him.
One funny thing to do to your OH (if it is a man) is to treat him exactly the way he treats you, for a day: Don't listen properly, don't sympathise much about things, sit with your back to him doing stuff and then snap when interrupted, grunt replies from behind a newspaper, don't clear up his plates, take phone calls without saying who it was etc.
I guarantee that by bedtime he will be asking you what the HELL is wrong. Hahaha! Of course, when you explain your actions he will deny being like that...But then you can argue about everything, which is always fun. Sort of.