completely agree with you Rosb, it's our choice how we choose to use the diets, whether we follow it to the letter or have a few blips along the way. i've been lucky enough to have a good experience with my counsellor so far and am happy with her and how she goes through everything at our meetings. i think it does make a massive difference to how people stick with the diet so i think it's vital that counsellors are vetted regularly to ensure that diets are being promoted well. its such a lot of money to part with every month (although i am saving on takeaways!) so i think we are entitled to our money's worth, counselling and all!