vanilla_cupcake
Silver Member
rachelbigbum said:Yeah well the amount of people jumping on the defensive of things I've written is the reason. Bang your head quietly!
I wasn't banging it noisily!!!! :beam:
rachelbigbum said:Yeah well the amount of people jumping on the defensive of things I've written is the reason. Bang your head quietly!
Like I said, I've only been on here a couple of weeks. I'll keep my opinions to myself in future!
Yeah well the amount of people jumping on the defensive of things I've written is the reason. Bang your head quietly!
Yeah well the amount of people jumping on the defensive of things I've written is the reason. Bang your head quietly!
jaylou said:Really? In 43 posts you've had lots of people jump on your posts???
I doubt it very much.
And please don't be so rude to the wonder Vanilla Cupcake, she's a wise one who is NOT indispensable!
onionbreath said:I never noticed before how 'clicky' this forum is!! Oh how I wish I could be part of the 'in crowd'!! Hmmmm mm ....
rachelbigbum said:Like I said, I've only been on here a couple of weeks. I'll keep my opinions to myself in future!
jaylou said:Really? In 43 posts you've had lots of people jump on your posts???
I doubt it very much.
And please don't be so rude to the wonder Vanilla Cupcake, she's a wise one who is NOT indispensable!
I never noticed before how 'clicky' this forum is!! Oh how I wish I could be part of the 'in crowd'!! Hmmmm mm ....
3106Catherine said:I feel like ive missed something here! I haven't seen anything that I would say was deliberately nasty/ b***** and I've been on this forum since 2010. Yes a lot of ppl come and go and there is a 'core' group of ppl who are consistent members/contributors.
I can understand it does get boring reading the same requests/types of posts but with the number of ppl coming and going I think that's par for the course.
I love minimins im here day in day out and yea sometimes things have got a little 'heated' but that's generally when advice is asked for and not accepted/excuses given.
Anyway I've neither seen the 'post' this might relate to nor the 'silver' section???? Jaylou what is the silver section I feel I'm missing out now!!!
who_la_hoop said:I reckon it's time for this thread to be locked - I can't see what can be gained by arguing like this. It's enough to put anyone off the forum - new member or established.
Was in general not attached to certain person/thread just an overview of what I've witnessed over this forum
Lizbif has gone off on one before about all this!! Some people like the sound of their own voices!!
As for people slagging off Starlight.....they need to catch themselves on, she does an amazing job, always has done and as I've said before this place would fall apart without her!!
clairex said:I think it's just important to remember that we were all new once, we didn't always know the plan like we do now -so is it really the crime of the century if someone asks the same question as a couple of days later and it got buried amongst posts? If it DOES annoy you, just ignore it? I don't get the problem.
I personally found it rude saying things like 'psh you can afford take aways but not group?' - im sorry but that is absolutley NONE of anyones business, and no one needs a randoms opinion on their life. I just found that pretty awful, actually. People don't need a running commentary on their life choices, based on a post or two in a forum.
But I think it is important to remember to read all posts carefully, you cannot tell someones tone of voice by typing! Some posts seem abrupt but that's just the way people type.
No one should be put off posting, there are lots of people who have been here a while, who know the plan inside out, who are happy to answer and help if they can.
If you feel offended, report the post. If you don't want to answer newbies questions, don't.
All goooooooooood in the hoooooooood.
I think it's just important to remember that we were all new once, we didn't always know the plan like we do now -so is it really the crime of the century if someone asks the same question as a couple of days later and it got buried amongst posts? If it DOES annoy you, just ignore it? I don't get the problem.
I personally found it rude saying things like 'psh you can afford take aways but not group?' - im sorry but that is absolutley NONE of anyones business, and no one needs a randoms opinion on their life. I just found that pretty awful, actually. People don't need a running commentary on their life choices, based on a post or two in a forum.
But I think it is important to remember to read all posts carefully, you cannot tell someones tone of voice by typing! Some posts seem abrupt but that's just the way people type.
No one should be put off posting, there are lots of people who have been here a while, who know the plan inside out, who are happy to answer and help if they can.
If you feel offended, report the post. If you don't want to answer newbies questions, don't.
All goooooooooood in the hoooooooood.