It is very easy to criticize and find fault...
Does he have any solution seeing how he has put his finger on what has gone wrong.?
If he could change things what would they be?
Sometimes things seem broken and beyond repair but if two adults are willing to work things out together then there is some hope.
From my own experience of life nothing is ever one persons fault in a relationship as it does take two to make it work from day one.
Saying it is all your fault sounds like what a child would say to its parent.
And unfortunately some adult children will always blame others for what goes wrong in their lives and are never able to take responsibility for their share of the blame.
Men especially I find like to turn their wives/partners into their mothers...
Once this happens they then go looking for another women to fill the girl friend/mistress role.
If you are doing his washing, cooking and in general looking after him, then I guess why would he want to leave...
He can have the best of both worlds.
Breaking up is never easy regardless of how it ends as it does force you out of your comfort zone and all of us like to stay in our comfort zone.
I think if someone broke my heart I would not want to be around them...so I would take a guess that he does not really mean you broke his heart..but more like you hurt his feelings.
Sadly now he has hurt you with his words and remember he has watched you suffer for over a week because of what he has said...so even if you get back together will you be able to forgive him for this hurt he has caused you
as women in general have long memories...
Love Mini xxx