Andi,
Us women are very strong when there are kiddies involved. You will get through it hun and this time in 6 months when you are all settled again you may think it was one of the best things that could have happened to you and your babies!
Is he gonna continue to see the kids?? If he is at least you will be getting a bit of time for yourself when they are at their dads.
Keep that chin up babes ... those kids need you to be strong both for yourself and for them.
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