Natasha84x
Full Member
Chin up Mel- you can do it and I'm sure you'll be a gorgeous bride in your size 12 wedding dress : )
Before and during LL
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Iwillgetthere
Determined to succeed
God Mel you have so much going on in your life right now. To be honest I dont know how you are coping. Just do meal to meal. If you can get a good couple of weeks over you before you have to switch back over to exante then your weight will have started to drop again and you will be stronger. You should put a pic of the dress you bought so we can see it. You really have to believe this diet is going to work for you. It did before and you know if you can just hang in there for a week of two - it gets easier. Big hug huni. Feel for you right now x
melarnz
Silver Member
I went back to group torY. My LLC was great. I'd forgotten just how lively she is. She praised me for keeping the majority if my weight off, coo'ed over my wedding and sympathised with my hectic schedule. We then got down to business of overcoming my trigger moments and discussed why we react to things the way we do.
Knowing I have to go and face someone each week who will make me face up to the consequences of
my actions will help alot.
I'm already looking forward to me going back next week and her telling me I'm a good girl for losing lol
I'm feeling positive!
Knowing I have to go and face someone each week who will make me face up to the consequences of
my actions will help alot.
I'm already looking forward to me going back next week and her telling me I'm a good girl for losing lol
I'm feeling positive!
Iwillgetthere
Determined to succeed
Think you have definately made the right move by going back Mel. You are going to stick at this and you are going to be down when you go back to her next week.
Remember one day at a time.
Remember one day at a time.
melarnz
Silver Member
Im feeling quite strange today. I feel positive about the diet, but i am so tired all the time it is starting to get me down now.
Im fed up with waking up just as tired as i when I fell asleep. Its starting to effect my job, I cant be bothered to do anything so my days are very long and boring and im not doing what im paid to do. im snappy with everyone. my sex life is going down hill (sorry if this is too much info). my poor hubby is contantly thinking he has done something wrong or feels like im not interested in him. Everytime i sit and try to study, my concentration levels are zilch!!
ALL I want is to feel like im not going to fall asleep any minute!!
ARRGGHHH
Im fed up with waking up just as tired as i when I fell asleep. Its starting to effect my job, I cant be bothered to do anything so my days are very long and boring and im not doing what im paid to do. im snappy with everyone. my sex life is going down hill (sorry if this is too much info). my poor hubby is contantly thinking he has done something wrong or feels like im not interested in him. Everytime i sit and try to study, my concentration levels are zilch!!
ALL I want is to feel like im not going to fall asleep any minute!!
ARRGGHHH
slendablenda
Gold Member
Did you go Mel? Maybe you should wait a few days until you are settled into a routine again.......
Good luck hun.
Good luck hun.
Iwillgetthere
Determined to succeed
Hi Mel. Hope you are feeling a little bit stronger today. Maybe you shouldnt go to the gym just yet if you are feeling weak luv. Your energy levels will come back. The last wee while you have been off and on and off and on packs and your body probably just isnt too sure yet what it is supposed to be doing. Once you stick with it another few days - hopefully you will start to find your energy again - when your body realises you arent actually going to cave in and give it some food this time x
Natasha84x
Full Member
I'm sure it will Mel! I'm ALWAYS tired! I drag myself swimming and always feel so much better after couldn't face the gym but once I get going at swimming all my energy comes back- try that instead? So exciting about your dress! : )
carrieclaus
Gold Member
hello im totally new to this site or any site for that matter. ive been on abstinance for 6days and today was the first day i didnt feel hungry or obsessive about food. this is my second time and im adamant im going to do it.
Iwillgetthere
Determined to succeed
Hi Carrie - welcome. You will find this site so beneficial over the next lot of months. Most of us rely on it daily lol
Well done Tracy. You go girl. I only had 2lbs off last night. Initially was a little disappointed but then realised I now have 90lbs off now so actually quite happy.
Mel - well done on not eating that burger. Bet you feel better for it this morning.
Well done Tracy. You go girl. I only had 2lbs off last night. Initially was a little disappointed but then realised I now have 90lbs off now so actually quite happy.
Mel - well done on not eating that burger. Bet you feel better for it this morning.
melarnz
Silver Member
It seems going back to group and getting married is still not enough to keep me on track. I ha e had a terrible week!
I was getting to the point where I could get into every size 16. Some were loose and 14 were just a little too tight. I remember the feeling of happiness that I was only 5lbs away from having lost 8 stone.
That has slipped away now.
I will start again today, I will go to my meeting tomorrow. I intend to stick to it and one day I will find the strength to get into ketosis, beat the hunger and the chatterbox that makes me think of food everytime I am alone.
I was trying on holiday clothes yesterday, some of the 18 were too small! I am pretty much back up to 14 stone and am kidding myself that I am a big 16.
I go away next sat. I could easily lose half a stone in that week. That will hopefully make my clothes feel better. I am going away with people who want me to succeed, and we are going to the middle if no-where, so i am hoping that will help me stay on track. I need to remember to take my shaker with me so there is no excuse whilst Im out during the day.
Imagine, coming back from France and my LLC says I've lost a stone. That will be such a buzz, I just have to try and remember that feeling.
I was getting to the point where I could get into every size 16. Some were loose and 14 were just a little too tight. I remember the feeling of happiness that I was only 5lbs away from having lost 8 stone.
That has slipped away now.
I will start again today, I will go to my meeting tomorrow. I intend to stick to it and one day I will find the strength to get into ketosis, beat the hunger and the chatterbox that makes me think of food everytime I am alone.
I was trying on holiday clothes yesterday, some of the 18 were too small! I am pretty much back up to 14 stone and am kidding myself that I am a big 16.
I go away next sat. I could easily lose half a stone in that week. That will hopefully make my clothes feel better. I am going away with people who want me to succeed, and we are going to the middle if no-where, so i am hoping that will help me stay on track. I need to remember to take my shaker with me so there is no excuse whilst Im out during the day.
Imagine, coming back from France and my LLC says I've lost a stone. That will be such a buzz, I just have to try and remember that feeling.
