As sad as it may be, when you are fat especially on your face it totally changes your appearance. The first thing people think when they see you is that you were fat. We live in such a cruel world. Does anyone notice that when you are fat alot of people dont want to talk or associate with you as though you have some kind of disease or something, also employers think you are lazy. Im a guy and not a bad looking guy, although im married girls have never really shown an interest towards me until last year when i lost 3 stone they were all talking. Correct me if im wrong but i think the reason why alot of girls dont want to go out with fat or overweight men is because they are embaressed and they will feel as though their friends would slag them off. What do you think?