I can totally understand what you mean, I think its hard to start moving on, while a funeral is pending. We were lucky, when my nana died it had been expected for a week or so (my mum & her sister were at the home round the clock) by the Thurs it was apparant she wouldnt last much longer and the woman who ran the home 'provisionally' booked the funeral for the Wednesday (yes you can actually do that lol) It meant when she died late on the Saturday night it was just a case of calling to confirm with the undertakers. Gawd reading that back sounds AWFUL but the staff at the home were amazing and well used to dealing with things. It was a huge relief for the family knowing we only had a few days until the funeral.
Wi tomorrow isnt til after work, about 1430, so Ill text you ASAP.
Hope yours goes ok but if it doesnt? I wouldnt give it a 2nd thought, youve had plenty more important things going on this week