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The Diet Guy
In a couple of residential homes I've been in, we had the 'Act as if" concept. The idea is that if you have to do something you don't want to do, you 'act as if' you want to do it.
If you feeling miserable, you 'act as if' you are happy. If you feel weak, you 'act as if' you are strong etc. The concept was drilled into us every minute of the day. For example, if you had to hoover up, as soon as you finished, they may well ask you to hoover again, even if you had done the job perfectly. You would have to look so happy to be asked, thank them for the opportunity of doing again etc Not doing so, not accepting and working on the concept had serious consequences.
It was tough to do, but it's an amazing skill to learn. It's stood me in fine stead during some tough times.
It seems to me that this NLP is similar in a way. Looking on the bright side...seeing the positive in things. Maybe not so harsh, but a similar idea all the same.
Possibly Mike??
Perception is projection and all that!
After my first course I spent a week smiling and acting more positively and found that I soon wasn't acting and I was happier, and also people around me then were happier.
When I used to say I was "depressed" I was labelling myself and hence I acted like I was depressed.
If you ask me how I am I will now say "Great thanks" as it makes you push back your shoulders and be that person, I used to immediately say "OK I suppose, bit tired..." etc etc and then I used to feel that way.
M.