kingleds
Gold Member
I would hate to think my OH's attraction to
me was based purely on my size. I have been big all my adult life, and with him since i was 20, so he's only ever known me to be big. If i had a health issues which was weight related, i would have no problem with him suggesting that maybe losing some weight would help. However, if he told me he was no longer attracted to
me because of my size i would probably reply that i was no longer attracted to him because it turns out he is a horribly shallow human being.
It would not spur me on to do anything other than kick his ar&e to the nearest curb.
However, everyone is different! I am a very subborn person who needs to come conclusions myself - even if it is patently obvious to the rest of the world
me was based purely on my size. I have been big all my adult life, and with him since i was 20, so he's only ever known me to be big. If i had a health issues which was weight related, i would have no problem with him suggesting that maybe losing some weight would help. However, if he told me he was no longer attracted to
me because of my size i would probably reply that i was no longer attracted to him because it turns out he is a horribly shallow human being.
It would not spur me on to do anything other than kick his ar&e to the nearest curb.
However, everyone is different! I am a very subborn person who needs to come conclusions myself - even if it is patently obvious to the rest of the world