Michelle27
Member
My partner doesn't know my weight only how much I've lost- however when I reach my target, I look forward to telling everyone at every opportunity exactly how much I weigh!
Does your hubby /partner know your weight??
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MichelleB
Full Member
My hubby knows how much I weigh, as we are both doing SW and weighing at home.
I was a bit embarrassed to tell him my starting weight though, at only 4 foot 11, 11 stone 2 sounded a lot
Don't think he listened though, as he got it into his head that I had told him I had been 13 stone at the start.
Michelle
I was a bit embarrassed to tell him my starting weight though, at only 4 foot 11, 11 stone 2 sounded a lot
Don't think he listened though, as he got it into his head that I had told him I had been 13 stone at the start.
Michelle
raquel
pink lady
Id rather jump of a cliff than weigh infront of my partner or tell him, he knows this , ive always had a problem with telling anyone what i weigh, i wish i didnt feel like this but i do ...... maybe one day i'll turn the corner, getting on the scales with the class leader is horrid but i did it, so i feel sorry for anyone who has to keep their weight to them self x
skinny*minx*wannabe
Full Member
My boyfriend doesnt know my weight, i tell him how many lbs ive lost ect but he doesnt know my start weight ect
but i know his
the reason i dont tell him is im not far behind his weight on the scales, so i find it embarrasing if he knew i was near the same as him
silly i know, but hey ho
but i know his
the reason i dont tell him is im not far behind his weight on the scales, so i find it embarrasing if he knew i was near the same as him
silly i know, but hey ho
I don't tell my hubby usually but did let it slip a few weeks ago. He wasn't at all bothered and we made a joke that I would soon be the same weight as him! He is 12 stone and eats terribly but never puts on weight! Don't ya just love em?!
Just wanted to say well done on losing the 16lb in 7 weeks. I really hope you get to spend Christmas in Mexico and that the physio is going really well for you hun xwhen I met my oh 3 1/2 years ago I was just under 10 st - thru illness and then having to have brain surgery my weights crept up (well more like leapt up lately:cry
Rayven
Addicted to Minimins!
the reason i dont tell him is im not far behind his weight on the scales, so i find it embarrasing if he knew i was near the same as him
silly i know, but hey ho
I've always weighed more than my hubby and i used to feel the same way as you, but he either likes and wants you for you (regardless of that little number) or he doesn't. I'vbe spoken to an ex about whether or not my weight was ever an issue for him and he assured me that it never was - he said i made it more of an issue because in my head it was.
Becca Wecca
skinny minny here I come!
My boyfriend has always known my weight. Never really felt it an issue with him about my weight and my size in clothes. In fact I find him the best person to take shopping with me as he will be honest and tell me if I look good in something or if I look fat. He is actually pretty good in picking out clothes
I could have written the exact same words as you. I feel completely the same. I have a friend who always asks how much I've lost but some days I think she is trying to trick me into saying how much I really weigh. No way only you guys know the truth !!
MammyLongLegs
Full Member
Nope!! My weight is strictly between me and the scales!
MazzyStar
Primark here I come!
A few months back my other half and I decided to challenge each other to see how much weight we could lose in a week on our respective diets. He was and still is on the slim fast and I was obvioulsy following the SW plan.
And then came the hitch, we had to weigh ourselves. I asked if I could just say how much I lost, he said no in case I cheated!
So anyway after tears and feeling sick for a few hours whilst thinking about it I finally refused to weigh in front of him and until this day he still doesn't know what I weigh!
I just can't face it. I know he will love me just the same so its not an issue with him, its just me.
However like I think somebody else mentioned I tell him everyweek how much I have lost (or gained) and I'm sure at some point he will realise just how heavy I am.
And then came the hitch, we had to weigh ourselves. I asked if I could just say how much I lost, he said no in case I cheated!
So anyway after tears and feeling sick for a few hours whilst thinking about it I finally refused to weigh in front of him and until this day he still doesn't know what I weigh!
I just can't face it. I know he will love me just the same so its not an issue with him, its just me
.However like I think somebody else mentioned I tell him everyweek how much I have lost (or gained
) and I'm sure at some point he will realise just how heavy I am.A few months back my other half and I decided to challenge each other to see how much weight we could lose in a week on our respective diets. He was and still is on the slim fast and I was obvioulsy following the SW plan.
And then came the hitch, we had to weigh ourselves. I asked if I could just say how much I lost, he said no in case I cheated!
So anyway after tears and feeling sick for a few hours whilst thinking about it I finally refused to weigh in front of him and until this day he still doesn't know what I weigh!
I just can't face it. I know he will love me just the same so its not an issue with him, its just me
However like I think somebody else mentioned I tell him everyweek how much I have lost (or gained
When we have both lost over 8 stone they may get an idea I guess !!!!!!
Sarah-Jayne
Gold Member
I weight every friday and make my other half weight straight after me so I dont feel alone lol, so yeah, he does see my weight
prawnchopSuey
Gold Member
Hell no!! I weigh about 3 stone more than him - very embarrassing!
I will brag about my losses though
I will brag about my losses though
downsizingmycurves
Silver Member
My partner does now but I did initially feel embaressed as I am only 5 foot 4 and he is 6 foot 1 yet I still weighed nearly 2 stone more than him.
I am now about a stone less than him so dont mind sharing with him, especially when I report my losses each week.
I am now about a stone less than him so dont mind sharing with him, especially when I report my losses each week.
strugglingwrighty
Full Member
My fella knows my weight, he is the only person (other than My mum and some friends) who know my weight, I just opened up to him. Was the best thing I did, I tell him everything anyway, and i mean everything so why not my weight, it wont change how he feels about me. Also from the age of 18 he has always been 12.7, so I said to him when I get to his weight I will let him pick me up (Ive never let him pick me up lol) so anyway each week when i get weighed he along with my mum are the people I tell, anyway he said to me so you must be there now, I said nearly there He weighed himself the other day because he was boasting how his weight never changes.... drum roll please, he is now 13.9! oops! he looks great for it, but he was mortified, he said im the feeder Lol because im loosing and hes gaining, his argument is that because I now weigh less than him he should be allowed to pick me up, but thats not the deal! xx
He weighed himself the other day because he was boasting how his weight never changes.... drum roll please, he is now 13.9! oops! he looks great for it, but he was mortified, he said im the feeder Lol because im loosing and hes gaining, his argument is that because I now weigh less than him he should be allowed to pick me up, but thats not the deal! xxive never told my fiance how much i weigh - he is 6'4" and i used to weigh 2 stones more than him.....now i weigh 1.5 stones less nearly - !!!
He picked me up off the stairs yesterday and i was like 'put me down!!!' imagining all the damage being done to his back.
I think if he asked me i would tell him, but he has never said my weight is an issue - he loves me for me. Whatever size....unless i got to the stage where i am bedbound...he might not be so keen then! xxx
He picked me up off the stairs yesterday and i was like 'put me down!!!' imagining all the damage being done to his back.
I think if he asked me i would tell him, but he has never said my weight is an issue - he loves me for me. Whatever size....unless i got to the stage where i am bedbound...he might not be so keen then! xxx
RubyMoss
Silver Member
I did write a big long post, but then my internet crashed (awesome!).
Basically, I've always been open about my weight, friends, boyfriend, family - whoever.
I totally understand those of you who don't feel comfortable enough to tell people - I've just always found it so much easier to be open about it; then, if/when I do lose weight, people will know how much I've achieved!
Plus, my boyfriend still adores me, despite the fact we got together when I was at my skinniest. He's 6'1" and less than 11st, whilst I'm 5'6" and over 12st. I thought he'd go off me as I gained weight, but not at all! He's never been disgusted by my weight, even when I am, which I just take as a big positive!
Basically, I've always been open about my weight, friends, boyfriend, family - whoever.
I totally understand those of you who don't feel comfortable enough to tell people - I've just always found it so much easier to be open about it; then, if/when I do lose weight, people will know how much I've achieved!
Plus, my boyfriend still adores me, despite the fact we got together when I was at my skinniest. He's 6'1" and less than 11st, whilst I'm 5'6" and over 12st. I thought he'd go off me as I gained weight, but not at all! He's never been disgusted by my weight, even when I am, which I just take as a big positive!
