Michelle27
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My partner doesn't know my weight only how much I've lost- however when I reach my target, I look forward to telling everyone at every opportunity exactly how much I weigh!
Just wanted to say well done on losing the 16lb in 7 weeks. I really hope you get to spend Christmas in Mexico and that the physio is going really well for you hun xwhen I met my oh 3 1/2 years ago I was just under 10 st - thru illness and then having to have brain surgery my weights crept up (well more like leapt up lately:cry and although he obviously knows, I never actually told him the 'numbers'. That was until march when we were told I needed more brain surgery and he was there when they did the flipping pre op checks....honest I was mortified! I was 2 stone heavier than him his face was a picture so here I am anyway on the road to recovery from the op and 16lb lighter in 7 weeks with the promise of christmas in mexico if I work really hard with my physio and get walking without crutches again
the reason i dont tell him is im not far behind his weight on the scales, so i find it embarrasing if he knew i was near the same as him
silly i know, but hey ho
No, nobody does (well except you guys lol) but even though I a) dont look my full weight (odd as im short) and b) its me its somethign im deeply ashamed off and dont want anyone to know until im happy with the number/clothes size
A few months back my other half and I decided to challenge each other to see how much weight we could lose in a week on our respective diets. He was and still is on the slim fast and I was obvioulsy following the SW plan.
And then came the hitch, we had to weigh ourselves. I asked if I could just say how much I lost, he said no in case I cheated!
So anyway after tears and feeling sick for a few hours whilst thinking about it I finally refused to weigh in front of him and until this day he still doesn't know what I weigh!
I just can't face it. I know he will love me just the same so its not an issue with him, its just me .
However like I think somebody else mentioned I tell him everyweek how much I have lost (or gained ) and I'm sure at some point he will realise just how heavy I am.