Don't you just hate it when....

big bear said:
This is it I don't know wot to do for the best.

I used to work with her & only recently got back in touch & been out a few times.

I know him for about a year....

No not drunk
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I would defintely tell her then. This happened with me and a very close friend and when I told her she stopped speaking to me. It was hard but as I said before she soon found out for herself and came back to me apologising. If you arent that close a friend to her she may do the same, but sooner or later he will show his true colours and whether or not you are still in touch, she will be grateful to you for trying to help x
 
*Emsie* said:
Unfortunately I don't think there is any predicting how she would take it and you could come off badly despite being the innocent party.
what are you feling inclined to do?
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Think its best to say nothing, maybe have a word with him & see what he's playing at...although as some of you say I'd like to know if it was me...

Hate these situations...
 
big bear said:
When your friends boyfriend tries it on with you.... :-(
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The advice of your children's cyber granny would be * what do you think your right knee is for dear child*.

I would not hesitate to teach him the lesson he clearly deserves............bl00dy animal, insulting too to think that his girlfriends friend would respond to him..............grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Remember the mantra right knee, right knee, right knee.

Years ago when I was a mere slip of a girl lol !! and travelling home from work on the bus in the rush hour. The guy sat next to me tried to touch me up. I didn't say a word but stood up asked him to let me pass him and as I passed I stood on his foot with my stiletto heel and ground it into his foot..............he screamed out loud with pain. I bet he never did that again. I had got off about 6 stops before mine but even being late home meant nothing compared with the satisfaction of letting the brute know what a tosser he was. I was only 17 at the time.
 
big bear said:
Yeah its really bad but what do I do....say nothing or tell her what a prick he is?

I just told him to do one & haven't said anything, but been playing on my mind all day xx
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Well I'd tell her but she'll probably be mad and it might be directed at you. I'd say something but I completely see why people wouldn't, hope you decide what's best but bear in mind if you tell her and their relationship is ruined she'll be mad and upset but if she stats with him things will be awkward between you.
Would you want to know if it was the other way round. Personally I would and I hope my friends would tell me x good luck.
 
Yup, they usually sail away into the distance all loved up and out of your life, you become the baddy and lose your friend.
 
big bear said:
This is it I don't know wot to do for the best.

I used to work with her & only recently got back in touch & been out a few times.

I know him for about a year....

No not drunk he came to mine to drop off something I left at her house as I live near him. He came in as I never really thought anything of it. We chatted about this & that then went we were saying goodbye instead of a kiss on cheek which would be normal he kissed me on lips & said come on give me a proper kiss.

I just said what you doing he just said oh go on kiss me, I said no way & closed the door...
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Oh I don't envy you!

How long have they been together? Has she any idea he has a 'roving eye'? My concern in situations like this is that he'll panic and tell her that you came on to him - he obviously has no scruples. In a perfect world I would say tell her, but we all know this world is far from perfect.

My brother-in-law had been cheating on his fiance for 18 months with my married next-door-neighbour (you can't make this stuff up!!) and I never had the guts to tell her. When it all came out she was miffed I'd not told her but she also understood why I hadn't.

Bloody men :mad:
 
Say nothing................nothing at all.Let someone else sort it.............because as sure as God made little apples he will do it again with someone else.

You do not need the hassle or the stress in your life....................leave it alone, drop it.


huge hugs xxxxxxxxxcx
 
They've been together a year, not sure if she knows what he's like.

I'm really annoyed actually as we all get on well & I actually like him (as a friend)
 
fillymum said:
Say nothing................nothing at all.Let someone else sort it.............because as sure as God made little apples he will do it again with someone else.

You do not need the hassle or the stress in your life....................leave it alone, drop it.

huge hugs xxxxxxxxxcx
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Thanks hun, exactly right I don't need the grief.

Bloody men eh!
 
breeza said:
Well she came out happier than she went in so fingers crossed she did enough.

Thanks for all your comments :) x
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Thank god for that! Fingers crossed for the rest of them.
 
DYJHIW you've eaten all 4 punnets in your graze box by 10.30am on Tuesday. When you're graze box only turned up at 10.30am on Monday.
 
kingleds said:
DYJHIW you've eaten all 4 punnets in your graze box by 10.30am on Tuesday. When you're graze box only turned up at 10.30am on Monday.
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That's nothing! If mine had arrived at 10:30 on a Monday morning it could have been gone by lunch! Lol x
 
kingleds said:
DYJHIW you've eaten all 4 punnets in your graze box by 10.30am on Tuesday. When you're graze box only turned up at 10.30am on Monday.
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Haha me too!! Which boxes do you have? I always have light box but they still eat into the days syns :(
 
Don't you just hate it when your son specialist goes on unexpected leave without letting your GP know and then the GP treats you like an utter idiot despite the fact I can GUARANTEE I know more about my sons condition then him!! Write the damn prescription you goddam numpty and stop patronising me!!! It's a blooming melatonin script not methadone. Get a grip man. He uses maybe half a dozen doses a year and typical of my son he needs it this week when I can't bloody get any. Two hours of sleep for me for the rest of the week :(
 
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