Its so hard to strike the right balance, I am mum to DD but a mother in law to J, so I don't want to overstep the mark if you see what I mean. There's a lot of history with my DD too, and a lot went on in her life prior to this "settled" period and I don't want anything to tip her back the wrong way.
I haven't posted anything to do with her prior life, but it has been horrendous, very frightening and extremely serious, so I don't want anything to set her off down on THAT path again. That is why I am doing what I can to keep everything on an even keel. Having said that, I couldn't do all of this without the support of hubby, who has been a total rock these past few days and is behind me 110%. Thank god for him xxx